How Often Do You Talk?

We all know that men do not like to talk, to put your feelings or thoughts into words. They are people of action to solve problems logically and rationally, without too many words. More rarely come across a man who sits in a chat and starts talking about himself.

I noticed that many couples in which this thing happens, they have fewer problems and misunderstandings. After all, if we all “given” the gift of speech, why not use it, right? It’s hard to completely ignore the past and do not think about the future. But if we are honest enough with us, we realize that we live in the present tense. The hic et nunc, the here and now is part of our lives. You did it wrong or done something wrong, immediately discuss this thing, do not leave them there, to gather, for the next fight, to have to put on wallpaper. Learn to say sorry, please forgive me. And it also teaches him to use those words.

And, of course, is valid and the other option: you did something to enjoy it, or he knows, write this thing, put it into words. And so, people feel very unappreciated and neincurajati. At least to you in couple , things could be otherwise, and that’s up to you two.

When problems occur in a couple, the woman is usually notifies you that feels affected. If he does not feel guilty at all, does not think gresteste something, then I will not to talk about those things. Even if things get worse between you, went to a marriage counselor may not be there. How to know the “guy” that you’ll need? How can you solve it matters if I fail?

If he is accustomed to speak does not mean she can not learn to do it. All people feel at a time to talk to each other, to tell the mostly live with what I feel and think, why would they want to do or what they have done already. Just as some people do not have enough courage or know how to do it. Talking about your feelings, the acceptance of many men , is a sign of weakness.Would not that be? They used to be or do in the forest, to be unhappy and they nefericeasca and the women live? Use someone that believes the strength and omnipotence?

To say it bluntly, to discuss what happens in a couple, so there’s no hard and can not be any worse.

- Do you really think I needed a bite to Magda, on her ex-boyfriend?
- No, but I could not help but do not. After all, it’s also her fault.
- Maybe it is, but you can not hear you the job.
- Yes, I think you’re right. Sorry.
- Yes, I think you should contact your sorry. Maybe that’ll help you next time you think a little more time to manifest such mischief free.

- You ate all the chocolate candy?
- Sorry, but even I feel like something sweet.
- Yes, I understand that you felt like, but even all? I could not you give me even one?
- Were not even so much …
- Ok, let’s see how we can fix this thing.
- I see only a single solution: get dressed and go to get something sweet.

You come easier to talk about the problems you have with your partner with a friend, themother or a stranger? Ask yourself why and if it is naturally so. If it is not simple and direct together to find solutions to your problems.