10 Things to Do When You are Alone or You Feel Lonely
by 10 things that you can do when you are away from your loved ones and feel marooned.
1. Read a book- Now, they don’t say that books are your best friends for nothing! A good book with a cup of coffee can give you company for hours. Even if you are not much of a reader you can still indulge yourself into comics! Remember Archies, Tinkle, Garfield, Calvin &Hobbes…….
2. Pen down your random thoughts- Often when you are alone and away from near and dear ones, the solitude of time and space brings lot of thoughts in the head and it is the best time to introspect and write down your thoughts into a diary…..a certain memoir to keep! You will yourself be surprised when you read it again after a few years.
3. Go for a walk- What better to beat the solitude than being amongst people itself! A stroll by a beach, lake or in a park will cheer you up so much. At times just gazing at people, observing their activities can really take your blues away. And then, a breath of fresh air and a little bit of exercise will also give extra benefits!
4. Listen to your favorite music- Just put the CD on and play your song. It is probably the best time for you to listen to ‘your’ music and feel it completely. You can sing along aloud, you can groove with it in front of the mirror or you can simply close your eyes and feel the rhythm in your soul.
5. Solve a puzzle- Take a crossword, su-do-ku, brain-teasers -anything that interests you, and try solving it. Set your own deadlines and make your own rules. It is a great way to not just avoid boredom but also exercise the brain!
6. Experiment in the kitchen- Now, if you are a homemaker then you might not like this idea a lot but there is always a time when each of us want to experiment our own recipes. And what better time than this to test your culinary skills! Go ahead, mix and mash anything you feel like without any worries of what will your hubby/boyfriend/kids will eat if you mess it up! If you are a guy, well you might just impress your girl with a culinary innovation!
7. Watch a movie- Get a DVD from your local shop and enjoy a movie. A comedy is the best option but so is any other movie that you really have been wanting to watch in a long time but haven’t got a chance to do!
8. Pamper yourself- Go shopping! Join a hobby class. Learn something new or reinvent an old hobby. Get activity kits and absorb yourself in the world of creative arts.
9. Connect with the past- See old cards, letters, photographs. It is something that is bound to make you feel better. You might also get excited to call an old friend whom you haven’t called in a long time. It is time to reconnect!
10. Write letters – This is the perfect time to pour your love into a letter and send it across to the people whom you are missing. You can write a long letter describing how much you miss them, tie it with a ribbon and send it through post. The recipient will be pleasantly surprised to see your little gift.
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Post CommentML Sheldon
On March 27, 2009 at 3:01 pm
I love how the majority of your suggestions don’t cost money. It’s so difficult to find good ideas for a lonely day that don’t cost a fortune.
Good article.
Elizabeth Abbott
On March 27, 2009 at 9:59 pm
I like this. Thank you for reminding me of my typos. Wish you well. This changed the course of my day.
Elizabeth Abbott
On March 27, 2009 at 9:59 pm
I like this. Thank you for reminding me of my typos. Wish you well. This changed the course of my day.
manya
On March 28, 2009 at 7:28 am
Thanks Sheldon and Elizabeth your comments are a great encouragement! I am so glad you liked the article.
manya
On March 28, 2009 at 7:28 am
Thanks Sheldon and Elizabeth your comments are a great encouragement! I am so glad you liked the article.
Fresh Writing
On March 28, 2009 at 3:38 pm
Hello Manya,
I love this! I have always loved reading books as well, and with this article, you have successfully enlightened me with more ideas to do when you’re bored…heh-you have really inspired me with your images, though-beautiful article.
Excellent work!
-Fresh Writing
Fresh Writing
On March 28, 2009 at 3:38 pm
Hello Manya,
I love this! I have always loved reading books as well, and with this article, you have successfully enlightened me with more ideas to do when you’re bored…heh-you have really inspired me with your images, though-beautiful article.
Excellent work!
-Fresh Writing
manya
On March 29, 2009 at 12:46 am
Thanks again. Your comments are truly inspiring.
-Manya
Elizabeth Abbott
On March 29, 2009 at 5:09 pm
This is a Hot Topic for sure! So Interesting and colorfull! Very well written and neat! I liked it twice!!
Anindya
On March 29, 2009 at 11:25 pm
Great thoughts Miss. Gupta, but I wonder how you missed the names of comics like Tintin and Chacha Chaudhury; just kidding. A really great piece of thought, if followed, can turn bitter loneliness into solitude of ecstasy.
manya
On March 30, 2009 at 2:04 am
Elizabeth, thanks a lot. Your comments are really very encouraging.
manya
On March 30, 2009 at 2:06 am
Anindya, thanks a lot for taking interest in my work. Yes, there are certainly many more Tintin and champak and chacha chaudhary. Hope to see your comments in future as well.
-Manya
Resounding Glass
On March 31, 2009 at 1:21 am
Hello Manya,
Thank you for such a great list of low priced things to do. The next time I am bored I will definitely keep these in mind. I really liked how you had an image to go with each item.
Keep up the great work,
-Resounding Glass
kate smedley
On March 31, 2009 at 2:58 am
Some lovely ideas, all very relevant. The mention of Garfield brought back some memories, one of my favourites!
Darla Cooke
On April 2, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Great ideas! Thanks for sharing.
Bren Parks
On April 2, 2009 at 3:34 pm
Very nice……and good advice!
manya
On April 2, 2009 at 11:01 pm
Kate, Glass, Darla and Bren you folks really encourage me to write more. Thanks a lot!
-Manya
vertjaars
On April 5, 2009 at 1:10 am
Calvin and Hobbes!
I’ve read every single strip in existence.
I enjoy all of these now and then except for 6. I don’t think I’ve ever cooked anything beyond microwaving.
But write more! I also enjoyed the one on the six gifts you could make yourself.
—Vertjaars
AllThingsPOETIC
On April 5, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Very nice.. cheers!
Juhls
On April 7, 2009 at 5:50 pm
Wonderful ideas for a free weekend or when one feels lonely! They are great, productive ideas, Manya : ).
vyom
On April 26, 2009 at 4:05 pm
wonderful ideas penned down very nicely.
Most of them are quite obvious but then how many of us actually do these things?? A nice reminder for all of us what to do when we feel lonely.
ajmera
On May 14, 2009 at 1:27 am
Wonderful article.. U really touch my heart..i do go for a walk when i am lonely
Angie
On June 21, 2009 at 3:36 pm
One of the best things to do to ease loneliness is to donate your time and energy to someone else. Baking or cooking and freezing for friends in need, donating your time to the local shelter or youth club, etc., will help divert your focus and energy to something worthwhile. Also, I have always found simple exercise, like walking or biking, to be beneficial in elevating mood and motivation. Then, last but not least, there is always the telephone to catch up with friends and family; best cure for the blues!
Nikita K
On August 18, 2009 at 12:40 pm
These are really good ideas that serve well not only when you have nothing to do but some of them are very good stress busters too. Good article with equally good easy-to-put-into-effect tips.
Shanon
On November 1, 2009 at 6:48 pm
These are all things that I have already pondered and some I have actually done, but there is still sadness and loneliness. My back and my knee are both messed; my kids come first and I can’t be that to them. I would truly love to volunteer my time, always have and now my resources are limited. It sucks….you really see just who cares when you are in need,
Zaina
On June 10, 2010 at 9:55 am
this is not helpful, but i appreciate your time.
Anon
On April 6, 2011 at 9:20 am
what if you feel lonely because you have no one but yourself in this ice cold world?
manya
On April 7, 2011 at 10:10 am
I understand how you feel Anon. It is difficult, I agree, but remember there are so many people in this world who are lonely – by circumstances, by disease, by destruction or disaster and we can always lighten our solitude by sharing someone else’s emptiness.