A Look Can Say It All

When you see someone, naturally most people don’t pay much attention.  But thats not me, Im the type of girl who sees your subtle signs.  Not to judge, but most of the time you can tell a person just by the first time you see them.  But not by how they dress, or how they walk or even by how they talk. No. You can tell a person by the way they look at you.  By the passion or dullness in their eyes, or just the expression you get.  A conversation often dose not even need words, your eyes can say a mouth full.

It doesn’t only judge character.  But also your emotions.  You can lie a million times and swear on your mothers grave (although Id rather you didn’t)  if somethings bothering you, or if you are lying your eyes will give you away. Always.  So when you’re talking to somebody remember these tips:

• Don’t Bullshit them

Most of the time when people want to chat with you, they want your real thoughts on something.  Not something that you just made up to “play the part.”  Nothing annoys me more than when I talk to someone and they tell me something that I know they don’t really think, just to look cool.  

• Be Inviting

Don’t make this person think you don’t want to talk to them.  Besides common curtsy, its annoying and offensive when someone actually wants to take the time out to talk to you and you just act like you don’t even care.

• Remember to always look them IN THE EYE.

It shows that you’re true, confident, and not intimidated by them.  When you show this people will respect you more and you’ll find yourself respecting them much more also.

Most importantly Remember when you speak, be real with people and remember to look straight at them with everything that’s in your heart.  Trust me if you don’t you will regret it.