Apologizing and Forgiving

Apologising is not an easy thing to do.But it is always the humblest and the best strength one could ever have. Most people are egocentric and no one is right apart from themselves. When things go wrong their pointing finger is always ready to point at someone else.

Maturity, responsibility, clear conscience and good heart is what one gains once he admits his mistake and sincerely apologise for it.

Just a suggestion it is best to unload yourself of those heavy and unproductive baggage which don’t give you any good but pain. When and how ? The answer is inside you.

If you would wait when you are ready, trust me it would never happen the longer you keep the pain the stronger it becomes and the harder your heart gets. When you become a person with a stone heart, then the next thing to happen is that it would make you numb and would blind you from seeing the truth which deprive you of your right to be happy.

If you have loved and got hurt, that’s OK. It’s not the end of the world. It’s part of the trials that you have to face. Once she has gone and one day she would find her way back to you, that would be a perfect victory because that means she is yours forever.Life is not perfect, one must experience being free for that person to find the way home.

When an apology is extended forgiving is always an issue as it is not always readily available to be granted.

Pain has it’s level I understand that, but please don’t get mislead by it, as it doesn’t matter whether it is mild or severe pain. What’s important is you have learnt from it, got wounded by it, but it has never changed you from being a good person. As a good person as you are , you will always be that brave hero of yourself whose valor would never be tarnished by any ordeal or trials which you have encountered.