Criticism: It Hurts

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Every person is unique and special in this world. There are born artists, talented singers, painters, poets, sportsmen and politicians who are very special in their approach towards their profession.  These days, every one has to face criticism at one time or the other and this is not at all good. Criticism is a very negative matter. It hurts a person’s feelings very deeply and in fact it does not good and brings only negative emotions in other person.

Many a times we never tend to care for the feelings of others. People always care about themselves thinking about their welfare, well-being and happiness. Very few people think about others. In many families, meals are criticized, children are criticized and on many occasions things go wrong because of criticism.

We never think as to why we are criticizing others, particularly when there are many ways and methods to make people understand on any particular issue. The mindset of people is always towards criticism and very few think as to why we have to criticize others when there are many faults at our end.  When we do not like others criticizing us, why should we criticize others?

When are we going to learn the best way of being modest and ethical in manners?  There are many ways to say “I don’t like that” but if we choose a harsh and rude way of presentation, we need to remember, that we are hurting the feelings of others and no one has right to hurt or bring tears into other’s eyes.