Crossing Boundaries: Facing Your Fears The Coolest Way

You are reading this article right now because you are either bitter with yourself, dismayed, disappointed, discontented or you just simply want the hell fear out of your racking brain. Well, I’ve felt the same way too some months ago and I just found a way out of that controlling, dominating and deteriorating fear that has held me back and blocked me from what I was trying to fight for so many times ago.

The truth is we all have fears, don’t we? Basically, it’s human nature. None of us can bravely tell that she or he isn’t afraid of something or someone or doesn’t have any fear at all. Having no fear is a damn foolish and fervently egoistic moron thing or should I simply say hypocrisy? The only question here is just, how brave are we to control and conquer all of our fears?

I have this one friend of mine that I haven’t felt or seen any signs of fear all the times that I’ve been with him. You know, you can easily determine if a person is afraid or nervous or if he is anxious and uneasy in a certain situation. But this person (I am very close to him), I can honestly say and swear that he is just so cool you can even get intimidated by him. He is the type of person who exactly knows what he really wants with this life.

I admire him in so many ways that I just can’t find a reason to hate him even if he’s been very controlling and dominating. So by observing some of his habits and then trying to apply it on my own, at least, I am now finding ways to break up with the old habits of getting so scared of the endless possibilities.

So let me share this one to you:

First, just try to get a little closer with God. No one could be of great help than HIM. No one. It ie hundred percent porven to be effective.

Second, express gratitude. Think of the beautiful things that had just happened to you and say THANK YOU LORD! With this, you can honestly have the feeling that everything is going out right with your life and there is really nothing to worry about. If things had not been turning out very well for you, at least treat this as a challenge.

Third, surround yourself with the people who geuinely cares and supports you with your endeavor. You will certianly get more upset if you are with crappy pessimistic morons who has the habit of not trying and turning down every great opportunities.

Fourth, make it a habit of getting proud and satisfied with every work you do. There can always be poeple who are greater than you are but at least you  know them and you are almost there! It will be a lot easier for you now because you already have an idea how to get there.

Fifth, and lastly, love yourself and love what you are doing. Fear is always a product of lacking self confidence and trust with one’s self. If you are confident that you know what you do or what you will do, yo can surpass any obstacale, whether it is approaching the woman of your dreams or delivering the speech that you have written. There is no point of holding back.

Fear is just around the corner. It can be really tricky and naughty. You’ll just know how to play with it.