Desiring a Happy and Successful Life
by So many people desire a happy and successful life but they always miss it. Written here is a tip on how to be happy and at the same time successful.
In addition to the above, another vital point to consider when desiring to be happy and live a successful life is having ETIQUETTE.
Etiquette is the science of living and it goes hand in gloves with contentment and selfless services to God and humanity. It becomes necessary to be good natured as this the bedrock upon which the previous two issues will stand..
Etiquette is therefore necessary for a happy and successful living and to ensure this, one must be committed to the following rules in its application to daily living.
1. Praise people when they do a good job.
2. Don’t criticize; it lowers the morale of any group or person, rather do constructive criticism.
3. Shun gossip. The person who gossips to you will also gossip about you; more so gossiping lowers man self-respect.
4. Do not argue. Why win an argument and lose a friend.
5. Encourage People. Encouragement is oxygen to the soul even the encouraged soul will be willing to do more.
6. Keep your personal appearance neat and clean.
7. Courtesy is the lubricant of friendship
8. Put yourself occasionally in the shoes of others, try to consider others people‘s point of view.
9. Be polite. Remember the value of saying “Thank you”.
10. Keep friends. To keep friends you have to carry half of the friendship.
11. Do things to make others happy.
12. Develop self-control and discard bad habits of temper, impatient, touchiness and selfishness.
13. Don’t hold grudge and forgive those that offend you.
14. Smile and laugh with people it is a very good tonic for the heart.
15. Lastly show love to people you meet on a daily basis, they may be your ladder to the top.
When all these rules are merge with contentment, godliness and selfless service to humanity, with hard work and prayer our world will be a better place to live and vices of all sorts will have no place amongst men.
A man with a contented mind will be at peace with himself and his environment, a man with a heart to help others will derive joy in doing so since he is not under any compulsion to do this and lastly a good natured man with good relating prowess will not only help himself but help others too in keeping world’s peace.
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