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Don’t Let Your Eyes Betray You

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            In another dimension of the parallel universe, we may be supplied with the perplexing answers we so earnestly seek the instant we need them.  Or, we might not stumble when we doubt ourselves or the outcome of our actions when attempting to accomplish various highly sought after goals and aspirations. We certainly would never be in a ‘financial bind’ nor be worried sick over bills, unexpected expenses, or ‘having the money’ should we need it for ourselves or our loved ones in cases of emergency. We would be more actively and intimately involved with the ones we say we love, “MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD”. And, they would reciprocate by tenderly showing these adoring and supporting emotions at THE times when it definitely mattered the most.  We would never be frightened, depressed or paranoid regarding our inadequacies and shortcomings.  We wouldn’t feel pressured by the need to compete or compare, nor would we entertain thoughts of jealousy or envy of another’s good fortune, looks, bank account, status or intelligence.  We absolutely wouldn’t walk around mad with a huge chip on our shoulders ‘mulling’ and ‘fuming’  over and over in minds all the times we feel we’ve been cheated, lied to, betrayed, done wrong or got the short end of the stick. No amount of negativity would be able to enter our minds at any level, especially thoughts of being undervalued and overlooked. We would always be assured that we were appreciated, respected and acknowledged for the unique talents we possess.  Self pity would never be able to find a comfortable spot in our lives re-enforcing the incessant qualm: “you aint good enough”, “you’ve never been good enough” and “you won’t ever be good enough.” The notion that only the rich get richer and the poor get poorer would not exist.  The idea of how beautiful, strong, intelligent or funny we were would never even enter our self-confident and self-assured minds. And, finally we would be so deliriously happy, spiritually enriched, physically fulfilled, sexually stimulated, mentally contented, financially productive, emotionally elevated, excited to be alive, filled with an abundance of enthusiasm to live each day to the “MAX” doing only those things that we were truly and genuinely passionate about, bombarded with as much beauty, charisma, talent, gifts, intelligence, wit, humor and rewarding potential as we could possibly display be in whatever sensual, artistic and creative pursuits we so desired.   Oh YEAH!!!  Wouldn’t that be the life?

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  1. Joie Schmidt

    On February 3, 2009 at 1:29 pm


    Interesting article.

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  2. amilia snow

    On March 13, 2009 at 9:55 am


    very compelling article, and very true. Sometimes we get to caught up or too used to the things around us, that we don’t fully appreciate it until it’s gone. We really need to start opening our eyes & see with our hearts that things matter, and its our life we’re talking about.

    Don’t be apathetic, take action!!! Good work btw :)

    amilia

  3. Paula Andrea

    On March 26, 2009 at 8:20 pm


    Thanks you, Liane.
    Life is an interesting banquet of delectable delights. We all partake of them momentarily. Thanks so much.

  4. Paula Andrea

    On March 26, 2009 at 8:24 pm


    Amilia,

    As with your name, our lives and relationships that reflect it are ‘compelling.’You are a sensitive, ‘in tuned’, vibrant human being who shares what she is continuously with others. You are learning{remembering}as we all are, to see through the mirages into the essence. Thanks for your shared insight.

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