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Don’t Let Your Eyes Betray You

Learn how to unravel the mystery locked within your relationships.

            Well, guess what???  It is life.  The one and only life that exists! And, if you are not experiencing this spontaneous passionate interactive rewarding receptively invigorating ‘give and take’ accomplished type of reality, then, even though, you may be breathing in enough air to stay alive, you are technically asleep {DEAD, maybe; even mummified}.  You are literally walking around with your eyes open but incapable of seeing what’s actually taking place in the world you’re supposedly living in.  You are on automatic pilot!  You have become so accustomed to your surroundings and the people who inhabit your personal space that you don’t perceive them or the triumphant parts they play in the ‘story’ of your individual life. {Including, those who seem to hurt you the MOST!} Actually, what you have done, through no fault of your own, of course [you didn’t know any better] is to have created a story that is completely false in every sense of the word and because you continue to feed and fuel it, YOU believe it’s real! You honestly believe that nothing is going to change for you.  You walk around in the dumps, complaining endlessly.  You criticize every little thing.   You’re not the least bit grateful for the small things (insignificant, to you) that are so vitally important in your magical world.  MAGICAL?  Yes, I did use the word magical. [Life is nothing short of magical.] The insignificant things, I am referring to are wrapped in the disguise of the disgusting, ugly, mean, hurtful, improper, deceiving, lying, disrespectful, and discourteous.  Don’t let your eyes betray you.  Look a little deeper. What’s really going on in your mirrored world?

 You jump to conclusions far too quickly.  You assign certain roles of position in either importance/significance or unimportance/insignificance and then base EVERYTHING on a predetermined memory without further exploration or investigation. You allow for no growth or error. In other words, you label EVERYTHING in your universe on various familiar levels of predetermined FIXED meaning.  You interpret and analyze and discredit or exalt EVERTHING (on that basis of distorted memory built upon an emotionally biased subjective frame of reference). Because you consciously choose to ‘see the previously recorded picture’ of the person without engaging yourself presently with him/her, you never truly experience the genuine event or human being. What does that invoke? An ongoing sickening saga {soap opera} filled life of restlessness, boredom, dissatisfaction, defensiveness, critical mindset, disinterest, depression, lethargy, coupled with the undeniable unrelenting sense of foreshadowed misery that keeps you in a perpetual state of indifference declaring: “What the hell does it matter anyway?” And “Who cares?”  Believe me.  It matters.  It’s your life we’re talking about!  What you need is a new and unadulterated vision. There’s no doubt you’d like to change the way you feel and see things.  You just don’t know how to go about it. Right? You want to have a clear vision without EVERYTHING being filtered through your ‘tangled up mind’ view.  You realize you feel like a stranger in a strange land,; looking in the mirror asking yourself , “Who are you and how did you get into my life?”

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  1. Joie Schmidt

    On February 3, 2009 at 1:29 pm


    Interesting article.

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  2. amilia snow

    On March 13, 2009 at 9:55 am


    very compelling article, and very true. Sometimes we get to caught up or too used to the things around us, that we don’t fully appreciate it until it’s gone. We really need to start opening our eyes & see with our hearts that things matter, and its our life we’re talking about.

    Don’t be apathetic, take action!!! Good work btw :)

    amilia

  3. Paula Andrea

    On March 26, 2009 at 8:20 pm


    Thanks you, Liane.
    Life is an interesting banquet of delectable delights. We all partake of them momentarily. Thanks so much.

  4. Paula Andrea

    On March 26, 2009 at 8:24 pm


    Amilia,

    As with your name, our lives and relationships that reflect it are ‘compelling.’You are a sensitive, ‘in tuned’, vibrant human being who shares what she is continuously with others. You are learning{remembering}as we all are, to see through the mirages into the essence. Thanks for your shared insight.

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