Family Our Solid Ground
by Family is behind a person’s success or downfall. Being part of a family one must be strong willed enough and cautious about decision making as there are circumstances when you need to make a very neutral and unbiased decision, yet maintain all the members’ respect.
A family is there to lead us to the right path and not to tolerate us when we are going astray.
They are our refuge when we are lost and we should be their refuge when they are the ones who are.
“No man is an island, no man stands alone”. Yes it is certainly true. But my question is how many among us have an ideal family, whom we could turn to when things are not so great?
What is a family? To me it is the basic unit of society with whom each of us belongs to and related to biologically.
Being a family doesn’t mean that people should be bounded by rules and norms of the society. Being a family means that the bond between father and children or mother and children must stay indefinitely no matter what the circumstance would be.
I have been a witness of different situation wherein I could honestly say that a family whom we consider complete is just the same with a family who had been divided by irreconcilable differences between the parents. It is very common today, it is not actually the issue of being whole or not, but it is the issue of being able to perform the role of a good parent to children.
Each one of us are responsible for our own action and there are times when we decide hastily and end up with a wrong decision. Which majority of this generation are so guilty of committing.
Everything has to change.This society is internalizing a drama which is never theirs. Children are using their parents divorce as emotional crutch for their own intentional incapacity. They pamper their ego with useless thoughts that they are the victims of the whole situation. I can’t believe how 2 people’s failure could be so tragic that even their children who call themselves as victims willingly act like virus to propagate such infectious decayed mentality.
Leave your parents alone. Being given life is more than enough for you to survive.
When two people decided to separate it is for the best intention. To give both of them a healthy space and be able to realize their own potential without the pressure of a failing relationship. However both of them should explain to their children why they ended up with such a decision. When things are clear it loses the panic thus making the path of understanding easier to track.
Irregardless of whatever situation each person has there is one great and powerful solution which only people with good heart and high respect for themselves could accept and deal with, that is FORGIVENESS.
Easier said than done, that’s what most people say.
We should not consider our family as storage of blames.As it is not the issue of what our family can do for us, but it is what we can do for our family.
There maybe problems and differences but the love and concern of our family will always be there. No one can love us with pure sincerity other than our family.
When things are falling apart our family is there. I’m sure not everybody would agree. I could say this because it is the truth. That is, if each one of us FULLY understand the meaning of FAMILY, then there should not be any reason for me not to be right in saying that FAMILY is our SOLID GROUND.
My recommendation is that one should fully understand the real meaning of FAMILY, complete or not, so that he or she would not define it as a “blame storage”.
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