Five Knifes That Can Destroy Your Life

Life is too short. Everyone knows their birth date. But no one knows their exact death date. Even the one in death bed doesn’t know that exactly. So, if you wish to live your life, each and every moment is important. Meaning of “Living Life” does not mean just eating, having heart and pulse rate proper and a healthy bank balance. It means a lot more.

Stop for a moment and turn back to find how many remember you, in the path of life you came across. The count will tell you how you lived your life. The wealth you stored is not going to tell your name, once when you leave this world. But the true friends and the way you lived the life will keep you in this world, even after you disappear physically.

It is easy to become sad and hurt others. You can find thousands of reasons for that. Even without any reason, you can do that. But to be happy and make others also happy is the art of living. Spreading your presence like fragrance of a flower, like a breeze adds value and meaning to your life.

Though everyone’s life is unique, few things are common. So, here are those 5 knifes that can cut the throat of anyone’s life.

1. Self Pity

As long as you pity yourself, no one pities you. When you are in self pity, you find everyone’s action as against you. In turn you act to hurt them, which keep all at a long distance from you. Life cannot be enjoyed without people around you.

2. Over Confidence

If you think you can achieve anything in this world, hats off to you. You have the confidence inside you. But if you think “ONLY YOU CAN” achieve and under estimate others and think seeking help from others will reduce your fame, you are over loaded with confidence. Over confidence will always keep you isolated from people and life.

 3. Over Pride

Everyone should have pride on themselves and their achievements. But it should not turn as a fence separating you from others. You can have your own pride, but should not expect everyone to respect that, because expectation hurts when not happened.

 4. Suspecting Others

You can put all your imaginations in a piece of poem or an article. Everyone will enjoy it. Even sites like Triond will recognize and pay for that. But if you put your imaginations to add to your suspecting nature, life ruins. You cannot find peace in your life, if you suspect and work like a spy to find matters. Especially, when you suspect your family members, blindly I can say “YOU ARE DEAD“. Death of life is equivalent to your death, though your lungs can keep breathing.

 5. Comparison

When you compare yourself with others, you are not aware that your life is stolen by that person. Yes, the person with whom you are comparing yourself will live your life and you have nothing left to enjoy. You turn as a photocopy of that person and you are not unique any more.

There can be many more issues and problems exist in this world. But when we build our base properly, by removing all items that put our happy life in stake, life turns BEAUTIFUL. The other issues will start getting solved on their own.