Forgiving and Forgetting
Is it easy to forgive someone. But do you easily forget what happened?
Do you find it easy to forgive someone? Do you easily forget whatever happened? I feel like it all depends on the situation and how it affected you. And the people in the situation. Forgiving someone doesn’t come easy to everyone. But in this lifetime its better to just forgive them and move on with your life. Now i never said that you would have to forget it. I just said forgive them. Life is too short to hold grudges on people. People spend a lifetime being mad at someone because of something that happened or something they did. Why not just forgive them? That doesn’t mean that you would have to be close to that person like you were before. But like I said it really depends on how it affected you. And who the person is. Even though you still should forgive people. We are all human. And everybody makes mistakes. But when someone betrays you it’s something that can’t be easily forgotten. It will always be there because its just apart of your past and everybody thinks about heir past. And it probably made you…you.
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Post CommentChelsea A Miller
On January 18, 2009 at 12:00 am
wow it amazes me how smart you are. I have very similar views about this. I always forgive people but I will never forget because that would mean I did not learning anything from that experiance. Life is to short to hold grudges like you said. It takes to much energy to be angry with sombody. I think forgivness is a gift you give to your self because most of the time the person you are mad at is not affected by it as much as you are. To me Forgivness simply means you let go of any hard fellings you had for a person. Does not mean you have to be friends with them.
Anyway my point is I agree