Four Easy Ways to Deal with People Who Verbally Insults You: How to Stand Your Ground

Do you feel insulted or badly treated by a person? Here are 4 easy ways to deal with people who just give you a bad time by insulting you. You have got to be strong and by that, apply these easy methods that will help your daily life.

1. The Easy Way

   If it starts for a while, don’t take it too seriously, just by ignoring and avoiding that particular person. Pretend he’s not there; you know what he’s not even there. Pay attention at other things in life. Like how happy you are after a nice chat, or a social hangout or anything, just don’t remember that person. This is the easy way; when it goes out-of-the-box we will see just how you manage with people like this.

2. The Hard Way

   I would consider this a last resort to the easy way, because this way requires more confidence and a strong sense of dignity. Imagine a person going up to you shouting:” You are one stupid idiot!” You try to ignore him, but it would only lead him closer and more annoying to you. Look at him and say something like:”I don’t care what people think, I like myself the way I AM!” Say it proudly, like you are yourself and he is himself. You don’t want to become him by insulting him back right (read on, you’ll need to)? Say anything you would think of, not hurting him back, but showing that you are strong and you will stand proud of what you are, and not thinking of what he’s saying. Most bullies, only pick on weak people, but don’t act all strong by beating others and speaking so cool; no. You want to be a better person. If this part of the guide doesn’t help, you have no choice but to…READ ON….

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   The Harder Way

   If you have no other choice but to insult him back, go ahead. Just make sure you only insult him not like his family or friends. This method is showing that you’re the stronger alpha lion than he is (if you know what I mean). Look for a weakness in him, looks, and way of speaking; anything. But if you feel that you might be under a threat of being physically hurt by that person, I would strongly suggest NOT applying this method. I shouldn’t even write this part.

4. The Chillin’ Way

   I am using the word ‘way’ to add emphasis to add emphasis…Didn’t you notice that? No? Well, never mind. If you are with friends, don’t you feel a lot safer than if you were alone? Well of course you would! Ignore the guy tell him, something like: “You’re wasting time insulting me, while you could do something more worthwhile”. Look normal, don’t look mad or insulted; like the EASY way, pretend he’s not there.

I would really suggest if you don’t feel very comfortable in applying methods above chillin’ and easy, just talk to someone who you would feel would be a help in order to solve a problem. But this depends on yourself; either to make it a BIG deal or something of little importance.

I hope this guide has helped those of you out there needing help

Thank you for reading!

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