Get Rid of The Negative Energy in Your Life and Revive Your Enthusiasm

Motto: For every discouragement you receive, you need 17 encouragements to regain your self confidence. (Research done by the Massachusetts Institute of Technology)

Have I got you thinking?

Then let me add that the emotional state that you have every day is important for your results in  seduction. If you feel gloomy, you will have a gloomy expression and women’s reactions will be dreary. If, on the contrary, you are enthusiastic and happy to know new women, your facial expressions will be one of enthusiasm and your body will be open for communication, making the women’s reactions open towards you.

What really happens when you have a lot of negative thinking, when you’re low on energy and you fail to return to the well-being and enthusiasm, which I call the natural state of life?

I will step-by-step guide you to what you can do now to improve your mood and have more energy for really important things.

Where does negative energy come from?

Before looking for ways to increase your enthusiasm, we must understand how energy is negative.

Each of us has certain automatic thoughts, which take place in the subconscious or give us energy we consume every day: thoughts of yesterday, thoughts from last month, or blocked thoughts, or even thoughts from when you were seven years old and you had a serious shock.

Places in which negative energy can come are:

1. Family
If your mother is overprotective and calls you “mommy’s boy”, if your father always criticizes your work and always brings up that you’re not perfect or you’re competing with your brother and somehow he always seems better than you are likely to suffer constantly about all of this.

A good thing to do here is to learn to take position, to learn to be assertive. When you learn to be assertive, you don’t let your parents or your relatives see you as a victim, a boy who does not handle hard work and needs their advice and the transfers of worries and negative thoughts.

It is essential to take position in your family and learn to negotiate, supporting your point of view, if you want to get good with women.

2. Work / college
Environment in which you spend 8 hours a day is obviously the environment that can support the positive energy you wake up with in the morning or can destroy it.

If you work with a difficult colleague, you either take positions and try to resolve the situation without being aggressive, but with tact and confidence, or you ignore it without being submissive in any way:).

If you work overtime constantly because you consider yourself a conscientious employee and by going this way you “rape” private life you convey the message to yourself that you’re a victim and you are not worth having a satisfying personal life.

Always choose the middle path. Be effective but do not destroy yourself. You are the most important person on Earth.

3. Circle of friends
If in your circle of friends, you’re considered naive, clumsy or jester, guess how women will find you? The same… without knowing how you’re friends see you. Because a role played too often becomes part of your identity and we know very well that women do not like buffoons, and neither fools nor clumsy guys.

Either change your circle of friends and propose to yourself that within the new circle to be a normal, confident, relaxed man, easy to take leadership by initiative … or try to take position in the group and play a new role. Experience tells me that it’s easier to change the group than trying to change their reactions.

4. In your spare time
If in your spare time you just play Counter Strike or Farmville on Facebook you are very likely to hate your passivity and lack of “life” …

If you wake up in the morning and you watch the news, and you do the same thing at night before you fall asleep you will definitely feel negative.

If in your spare time you complain that you don’t have anyone to go out with, you’re making an excuse for passivity, and it means you like to live in a drama.

There are so many courses, fairs, events, exhibitions, and places where you can go to discover the world around you and your inner world, and I find it aberrant to have the excuse that you do not know where to go or you don’t want to go alone …

So, dear friend, breathe … and dare …

Dare to change something about you right now, and keep changing every day for the rest of your life because our essence is the movement.