Girls, Sex, Money and Power – How to Get Your Share – Part One

It has been a great mystery to most of us guys for the best part of forever. What is the path to take to reach blissful happiness in the modern age – meaning girls, money, power and all the T and A you could ask for?

Well, I will not let this mystery baffle and bamboozle you any longer. For I have been one of you before, confused to the point of wanting to remove my eyeballs in sheer frustration so I would not have to see the atrocities of life any more. Actually, I still am, but at least I know the answer, I just haven’t got around to putting it into play. But that is neither here nor there.

Let me ask you a question. To see if we are on the same website. What is the one thing that these lucky SOB’s of society seem to have?

The answer is simple – confidence – and bags of it. These guys are the ones who don’t hesitate to compliment the cashier while buying a pack of gum, giving him the chance to flash a smile and get one in return. All the while the rest of us mortals stand there shifting from one foot to the other while we wait in deathly silence as Ms Cashier scans the barcode and asks us for our 22 pence in a tone that could pass as – ‘I would rather shove goldfish up my backside and let them swim up and out of my nostrils to give them a good clean than say a friendly word to you’.

Are you with me so far?

Not a problem if you are having trouble seeing my side of the solution as of yet. We will get there. But first, I am going to ask you to do one simple thing for me. And you must do this simple thing because it will change one area of your life dramatically.

Whenever you go to a shop, any shop to buy something. It could be a burger at McDonalds, or a pint of milk from the newsagents, even a gallon of petrol from Shell. When it is your turn to get served, just ask the cashier, male or female it doesn’t matter, just ask the person ’how is your day going?’

Now you can ask your own variation of the question. Maybe ask if they have been busy, or if they have got long to go for their shift. Just ask something innocuous and innocent. This is very simple. You don’t need to approach a stranger because you already have. You don’t have to be funny. You don’t have to be charming. You don’t need the gift of the gab. You just have to seem a bit interested…and a smile helps too.

When you do this, just watch the results. You will tap into a section of socialising that is very much unknown. All for the asking of a simple question. Just do that for me okay, and you will get a big boost to your confidence. I have recently started doing just this and already I am friends with the ticket man at the train station, the newsagents, the butchers, the pharmacist, and the owner of the chicken shop who now gives me bigger portions.

Okay, so go away and do this first. Make sure you do it with every cashier or assistant you come across and soon it will become second nature to you. Try it for at least a week and watch the results. Very soon you will find yourself getting used to these mini conversations that your true personality will easily come through, and when you hit that stage, you will crack your jokes, tell your interesting facts and open up your personal being a lot easier.

When that happens, come back and read part 2, and we will take you to the next level…