High Expectation Leads to Broken Dreams
by There is nothing wrong with setting goals, but they must be within the boundaries of reality.
Everybody has a dream. But there are many people who are not educated about what it really means, well apart from the one which everybody experience while asleep-that is self explanatory.
Being the best of whoever you are and following your dream. Here’s how:
- Identify your interest.
- Make a list of all your skills and test yourself to find out where you are really good at. As there are people who are really multitalented. Focus only on one for a start.
- Make a research about it’s market within your area, in the province, abroad and on the Internet.
- Make a plan on how to come up with an interesting job which you own and enjoy doing, make a website, to promote your creation and turn it into a profitable business.Start on a small scale.
- Make a feasibility study, calculate the total cost and and the probable profit.
Once you have made yourself some profit, then you could start doing your next plan towards branching. Doing things like this should be fun, each of us should be taught on how to make the basic foundation of our dream and on how to improvise when needed. There is always a solution to everything.
Anyone could be successful in his or her own way, one should not be a reflection or a clone of his mom or dad. Each one of us is unique and each person’s choice must be guided , respected and supported. This way nothing can go wrong.
Sometimes things are a bit tough for some children as their parents have a great influence in their choices , as more often, parents see their children as the extention of their life and dreams.
The truth is there are 2 facts about this issue, there are parents who have children with the same interest as what they have,they are lucky. But there are also parents who influenced their children’s choice , eventhough it’s not that obvious, as the children might be shielding their emotion out of fear or respect,why don’t you try and check, these are the children who are unhappy, easily depressed, always have tantrums, they sometimes develop confusion about their identity and gender.
Which is dangerous for most boys, as when there is too much pressure and expectations,they tend to get so worried and they start to develop anxiety. Because of that they don’t feel t happy being male. The thought that male gender is associated with unbearable pressure and rediculous expectations, make them mentally and psychologically tortured. they feel like if they fail, they would be failing the whole clan.It’s more like of a brainwash isn’t it? Such a rubbish emotional blackmail.
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