High Expectation Leads to Broken Dreams

As they themselves start to rationalize their decision just to convince themselves that what they are doing is right and that their parents know best and that they were born to follow their footsteps. While their mind and heart screams “LET ME GO!”.

So what do you say moms and dads? Are you happy when you’re child experience these things?

For goodness sakes, parents like these are worst than gangsters. As they are destroying what might be a very meaningful existence of one great leader or artist, or business genius or dancer or probably a scientist.

Let our children show what their interests and let us expose them to what they want to do until they come up with the best one and support them in nurturing that dream. I would love to see my sons happy and successful doing the job which they love to do.

Misguided thoughts of our children should be prevented. Be very cautious on imposing expectations. Make sure they participate in setting the limits of what they can do. It’s better to give them choices or options on how to reach their goal.

I always say to my son. There is no perfect or ideal way of doing things for each of us is unique, it doesn’t matter how does things as long as he would do them and he’s happy doing them.

I have no other wish but for my children to be happy in all aspects of their being.

Everybody has a special purpose and I don’t want to waste it, I would love everybody to enjoy where they are good at and I’m sure this world will be filled with the most creative individuals who do their jobs with passion and with a superb level of expertise or craftsmanship.

What about you wouldn’t you want that?