How Can I Make a Good First Impression?
by Making a good impression in the first day of school, Job interview, and finding your soul mate.
Picture that you’re taste a certain food for the very first occasion. How long does it take for you to figure out if you like it or not? One bites decide whether you ill ever eat that food again or even finish the portion that’s in front of you. Something alike happens when you get together another person for the very first time. In just a second, you form an impression about that person. (And here’s a thought: in the same time, that person forms an impression about you).
Are you seeking a marriage mate, a friend, or for a job? Your accomplishment may depend on the first impression you make. There will be three areas in which you may need to improve on your social skills, so that the impression you leave with other is a good one.
How You Look
The impression people form of you may be based on the first thing they see, your appearance. This feature of making positive first impression is often overlooked. Time and again it seems that when you go to a restaurant, you don’t know whether people will show up in a formal gown or in their pajamas!
Nevertheless, what you wear should be appropriate for the occasion. For example, you wouldn’t wear the same outfit to a job interview as you would wear to the beach! But what if you’re just not sure what’s appropriate. The key is to reflect good sense by avoiding extremes. When in doubt, lean toward these suggestions.
-Get advice from someone you respect (your mama) for his or her good taste in clothing.
What Your Say
Your speech reveals whether you are modest or conceited, easygoing or desperate. Nevertheless, keep in mind you’re trying to make a good first impression on a member of the opposed sex. If with any hesitation, lean toward these suggestions.
-Take notes of those who seem gifted at holding a conversation. What techniques do they use to keep the conversation going? Could I use a similar method?
How you act
As the saying goes, actions speak louder then words. For example, if you’re polite, your actions (say) that you have respect for others. That’s another tip to keep in mind when you are ready to look for a marriage mate. Doing the little things, like holding the door open, shows respect.
-Ask yourself, am I polite? Do I show genuine interest in others? Am I dependable? Am I punctual?
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