How Do You Get Over a Heartache?

My first adise on how to get over reject is: DON’T!

You can try to avoid it by seeing the signs in certain men. But your heart always appears to live a life of it’s own and there is no garantuee love ever gets responded.

If you really try to forget somebody, you are already thinking about that person. So I would say: accept things as they are.

Reversion tends to work as well: you are a great person and the other one just does not know what he is missing.

Or if the person is taken, feel sorry for the girlfriend. She might have to live with the fact some women might love her partner more. Do not try to break them up. Bad thing: you will lose all with it. I tended to get along fine with the girlfriends as well. When they broke up, I usually remained friends with the girlfriends and the poor guy I used to have such a crash on … Well, he got double bashed, because he suddenly became the creep that dumped my friend and I did not want him anymore either. By the way: would you want somebody that you can easily get away from his girlfriend? If you are not looking for a real commitment, maybe, but if you are looking for Mister Right, you are looking the wrong way.

We all make the same mistake when we are in love. We all tend to get a bit too pushy. This just increased our chances of success. Just keep in mind that most men simply are not committing. Don’t go for all or nothing, since you will end up with nothing. I prefer to remain friends, but some men just prefer to run, even if you just want to be friends. Accept that. If they stop caring and don’t contact you back, they have a bigger problem than you.

My advise is: just enjoy your feelings and make them your own. Do not feel guilty so your feelings will drag you down. Get inspired by the situation. Do what I do: write about it and share your ideas and experiences. Only in that way can we move on with out lives.