How Life Is To Be Lived
by Many people blame someone else for all their failures in life. The fault could be with them for that matter. If one has made a mess of one’s life, the fault would be entirely his or hers. See how a life could be lived successfully and pleasurably. Read on.
Many people may say, “I have made a mess of my life, have experienced no happiness in it ever, it is dull and insipid; I am good for nothing” and so on
Wrong my friend. Possibly, you have started your life with the wrong step that’s all and as a result you could have been going at a tangent at every stage missing the mark completely. Probably you have not taken the right decision at the right time.
Once you are an adult and have secured a job of sorts with a steady income and if you are around 24 or 25, you need to think more seriously about your future. Get married and fast. OK? Don’t think in terms of living alone. There is no happiness whatever in the bachelor’s world. God created woman to be a companion to man. God never intended man to live alone all by himself; he has to live with a partner and that partner is a woman. God must have had some purpose in mind when He created women. Right ?
There is tremendous joy when you are a married man or a married woman. Everything around you would look bright and beautiful because you have someone who would share all your sorrows and joy. You will also have a ready advisor on hand. Believe it or not, it is the wife who would give you the best advice. Women have a better intuition, you know? It’s a God-given gift to them. Turn to her and no one else. That’s a marvellous guarantee, isn’t ?
Some men say that their life has been spoilt because he chose a wrong woman. Wrong again, my friend. The first spouse is your best partner. She had been picked up and displayed before you.. Who has done that? God Himself. You wouldn’t have gone through a marriage ceremony unless God has willed it. Conversely, if the marriage has materialized and life is going on smoothly during first month or so, be sure that it was God who had given you the right woman. Don’t try to prove God wrong by divorcing your wife or living separated from her. There is no charm in a divorce or separation.
If you go in for a second marriage, the second wife probably would prove worse than the first and you may even regret divorcing the first.
Your aim in life is to live it and live it grandly and successfully. That would be possible only if you accept a woman as your life time companion, love her immensely more than anything else in life and live with her for centuries !! Keep telling yourself again and again that she is the most suitable woman for you. Looks don’t matter at all. Try it. That’s the way to live your life.
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