How Not to Annoy the New Person in Your Life

In order not to irritate someone new in your life, especially since you have been alone for years. It takes time to start to live with someone, when you are set in your ways. Try to take into consideration that the two of you need to understand that you both need time to know what you both like and dislike . If you both like music then maybe on Friday nights after work the two of you can listen to music while having dinner, and keep the music going all evening, listen to what he likes and to what you like, and maybe do some dancing.

This is a good start. But when his in the bathroom and you need something out of that room, Do not just walk in there, remember it’s not just about you know. Try taping on the door and say i need my cream from there if he gives it to you great but if  he gets a little upset, then you know he likes his privacy in the restroom. So I wait until he gets out. Then i go in and get what i need. Same thing when i am in the restroom. if he taps the door i will either say come in or can you please wait a minute I am almost out. Always keep the same tone in your voice. Do not sound upset speak in a cheerful voice. If you continue to do this the habit will stay with you.

Remember we no longer live alone. I love my new partner in life. We will always try to understand each other and respect each others personality’s. Most important always talk to each other if  there is something you need to talk about. The problem will not get better until the other person knows why you are upset. The only way to work out a situation is to talk to each other about it.