How to Ask for a Favour

Some people dread asking for a favour. No matter how much the thought of asking for help irks you we all have to do it sometime or another and it’s not as hard as you might think.

The easiest way is too just be direct. State what your issue is and then ask. Don’t preface your request with questions like “Can I talk to you about something” as they just put people on the defensive. Be straightforward and it will be appreciated.

Choose your timing. If you’re asking your boss for a day off or more time to complete something wait for a quiet moment. Studies show Friday is the best day to ask for a favour as people are more relaxed. If youre asking a friend make sure to ask them about their day first. You don’t want to seem like all you care about is getting their help.

Find out the current circumstances of the person you are asking for a favour. If they have problems of their own to deal with then they aren’t the person to ask. Don’t ask a favour of anyone who could be put in a difficult position by your request.

Try to be generous with your time. If people remember you helping out often they’ll be much more likely to want to do a good deed for you.