Comments on: How to Deal with Rude People http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/ Mon, 23 Nov 2009 13:15:11 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: lonelygirl http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-164577 lonelygirl Sat, 26 Sep 2009 14:21:58 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-164577 Hi all, I am an african american women living in Germany (over 15 years now. I agree that rudness comes in all differerent colors, shapes and sizes. Unfortunately, for me I get laughed at almost daily. I don't find myself ugly but I don't have the small nose and straight hair thats excepted as beauty. It hurts so much to be laughed at and I cry offen about this. The only thing that helps me sometimes is when I consentrate on the few friends that I have. Some of them are german, poland, greek and africans. They are wonderful people and I love them dearly! Unfortunately, there not very many people like them. Lets just all try to stick together because we know the hurt and pain of others laughter. If anyone would like to chat privately, you are welcome to send me an email (swilbie@yahoo.com). Like I say "makes friends not war". Blessing to all of you :))))). Hi all, I am an african american women living in Germany (over 15 years now. I agree that rudness comes in all differerent colors, shapes and sizes. Unfortunately, for me I get laughed at almost daily. I don’t find myself ugly but I don’t have the small nose and straight hair thats excepted as beauty. It hurts so much to be laughed at and I cry offen about this. The only thing that helps me sometimes is when I consentrate on the few friends that I have. Some of them are german, poland, greek and africans. They are wonderful people and I love them dearly! Unfortunately, there not very many people like them. Lets just all try to stick together because we know the hurt and pain of others laughter. If anyone would like to chat privately, you are welcome to send me an email (swilbie@yahoo.com). Like I say “makes friends not war”. Blessing to all of you :) )))).

]]> By: Netty net http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-156181 Netty net Sun, 06 Sep 2009 04:08:42 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-156181 When I live in New Jersey I use to work with some rude ill manners jerks. When I live in New Jersey I use to work with some rude ill manners jerks.

]]> By: yankee in the south http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37575 yankee in the south Fri, 27 Mar 2009 06:08:14 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37575 Universally, it is a self-centered and entitled "lens" that brings about a rude person...some of it is age, maturity and experience...sadly, race has been intimated as a causational factor, but really it is more cultural; we live in a culture of self-service, self-importance and outward apathy... Universally, it is a self-centered and entitled “lens” that brings about a rude person…some of it is age, maturity and experience…sadly, race has been intimated as a causational factor, but really it is more cultural; we live in a culture of self-service, self-importance and outward apathy…

]]> By: Sarah http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37571 Sarah Mon, 02 Mar 2009 17:25:21 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37571 Ebony,<br /> <br /> He isn't the God of the dead, He's the God of the living. Which means right here, right now, you have to live your life in circumstances which may make you very angry and which God wouldn't have chosen for you. But Jesus wants us to forgive. He forgave all of us for crucifying Him when He came to earth out of love; He expects us to do the same if we want to be welcomed in the Kingdom of Heaven.<br /> <br /> I also think you may want to take a look at the lives of Idi Amin, Pol Pot, Chairman Mao, and see that evil isn't limited to white people. It's the result of sin entering the world through our ancestors, who were a bunch of different colors.<br /> <br /> I pray that God will quench your anger and give peace to your soul. Ebony,

He isn’t the God of the dead, He’s the God of the living. Which means right here, right now, you have to live your life in circumstances which may make you very angry and which God wouldn’t have chosen for you. But Jesus wants us to forgive. He forgave all of us for crucifying Him when He came to earth out of love; He expects us to do the same if we want to be welcomed in the Kingdom of Heaven.

I also think you may want to take a look at the lives of Idi Amin, Pol Pot, Chairman Mao, and see that evil isn’t limited to white people. It’s the result of sin entering the world through our ancestors, who were a bunch of different colors.

I pray that God will quench your anger and give peace to your soul.

]]> By: John Doe http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37569 John Doe Tue, 13 Jan 2009 03:51:16 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37569 Ebony, <br /> Let me start off by saying that though Europeans may have been cruel in history, it's the ghetto black people thats the main problem these days. They always act as if the world owes them something. In reality this isn't true. It's gone so far we have a president who's willing to steal money from successful people and give it to ghetto people who would rather spend money on newports than bread and milk. I rest my case. Ebony,
Let me start off by saying that though Europeans may have been cruel in history, it’s the ghetto black people thats the main problem these days. They always act as if the world owes them something. In reality this isn’t true. It’s gone so far we have a president who’s willing to steal money from successful people and give it to ghetto people who would rather spend money on newports than bread and milk. I rest my case.

]]> By: Loner girl http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37565 Loner girl Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:38:24 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37565 i agree with you Caucasiany Bigwood,i am currently living in a black neighborhood in a mostly black apartment. Black people are indeed the most rudest people i\'ve ever interacted with.For one thing, i have to deal with their looks and racist comments every time i walk out or go back home. Just because i\'m not black like them, geez. I extremely agree with you when you say they expect things from you but not the other way around. I hold the door for them and they ignore me. When they open the door, they don\'t look at me so i figured they\'re ignoring me, but as i walk away they\'re screaming \"YOU\'RE WELCOME!\" like they expected something in return. I probably would\'ve said thank you if her head wasn\'t turned the other way around.<br /> YOu should\'ve seen the sight of this chinese resturant that was opened in the neighborhood. All of their customers were black people of all ages. They were rude to the people taking their order and even ruder wen recieving their order. No thank yous or anything but INSTEAD they either say nothing, loudly demand something such as soy sauce or sumthing, or they make fun of their nationality and mocking the way their language, all the while laughing to their friends. What a world we live in.<br /> *I base my comments on experience so i have good reasons to say the things i did. There were not more than 5 Africans whom were sensible people that i\'ve known living there. African Americans may recieve racism, but they give it as well.*<br /> i agree with you Caucasiany Bigwood,i am currently living in a black neighborhood in a mostly black apartment. Black people are indeed the most rudest people i\’ve ever interacted with.For one thing, i have to deal with their looks and racist comments every time i walk out or go back home. Just because i\’m not black like them, geez. I extremely agree with you when you say they expect things from you but not the other way around. I hold the door for them and they ignore me. When they open the door, they don\’t look at me so i figured they\’re ignoring me, but as i walk away they\’re screaming \”YOU\’RE WELCOME!\” like they expected something in return. I probably would\’ve said thank you if her head wasn\’t turned the other way around.
YOu should\’ve seen the sight of this chinese resturant that was opened in the neighborhood. All of their customers were black people of all ages. They were rude to the people taking their order and even ruder wen recieving their order. No thank yous or anything but INSTEAD they either say nothing, loudly demand something such as soy sauce or sumthing, or they make fun of their nationality and mocking the way their language, all the while laughing to their friends. What a world we live in.
*I base my comments on experience so i have good reasons to say the things i did. There were not more than 5 Africans whom were sensible people that i\’ve known living there. African Americans may recieve racism, but they give it as well.*

]]> By: june bug http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37567 june bug Mon, 24 Nov 2008 10:49:28 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37567 Hey, we are all humans capable of being cruel or kind. Children should be taught while very young to be kind and consider others feelings Hey, we are all humans capable of being cruel or kind. Children should be taught while very young to be kind and consider others feelings

]]> By: Chinese Man http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37563 Chinese Man Sat, 11 Oct 2008 18:15:10 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37563 Native Indonesians are the most rude people in East Asia. Chinese Indonesians who have businesses are opening jobs to native Indonesians. In return, Chinese Indonesian are treated like \"Foreigners\" by native Indonesians. Chinese Indonesian even got a different number for their Citizenship ID card to identify that they are Chinese (even though born in Indonesia). Chinese Indonesia can\'t even apply in Government jobs. Native Indonesian always talk rudely when approached by Chinese Indonesia. If you think racism and rudeness between White and Black in the US is bad. In Indonesia, it\'s even worse. Don\'t believe me, ask all Chinese in the world, I think they already knew. Native Indonesians are the most rude people in East Asia. Chinese Indonesians who have businesses are opening jobs to native Indonesians. In return, Chinese Indonesian are treated like \”Foreigners\” by native Indonesians. Chinese Indonesian even got a different number for their Citizenship ID card to identify that they are Chinese (even though born in Indonesia). Chinese Indonesia can\’t even apply in Government jobs. Native Indonesian always talk rudely when approached by Chinese Indonesia. If you think racism and rudeness between White and Black in the US is bad. In Indonesia, it\’s even worse. Don\’t believe me, ask all Chinese in the world, I think they already knew.

]]> By: A regular person http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37561 A regular person Fri, 22 Aug 2008 18:28:11 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37561 Wasn't the question about rude people? Most of the comments above that I have read reflect racists. No one is responsible of the actions of others. Who would apolgize for something that they have not done? Maybe someone who needs to read a book about self-esteem? I raise an eyebrow anytime a conversation about "people" turns to white...black...etc. Racists pure and simple. Clinging to a past that you were not even born into? Get over it. Move on. Make the best of YOUR life. Be the best non-racist person that you can be. Guh! Wasn’t the question about rude people? Most of the comments above that I have read reflect racists. No one is responsible of the actions of others. Who would apolgize for something that they have not done? Maybe someone who needs to read a book about self-esteem? I raise an eyebrow anytime a conversation about “people” turns to white…black…etc. Racists pure and simple. Clinging to a past that you were not even born into? Get over it. Move on. Make the best of YOUR life. Be the best non-racist person that you can be. Guh!

]]> By: Ebony Littlewood http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/comment-page-1/#comment-37559 Ebony Littlewood Fri, 15 Aug 2008 07:14:24 +0000 http://socyberty.com/advice/how-to-deal-with-rude-people/#comment-37559 Peace, peace and loooooovvvvve. Hippie flower child LOL You ain't gonna find that much of it in this mean ol world. Wake up Janet. You are dreamin' Peace, peace and loooooovvvvve. Hippie flower child LOL You ain’t gonna find that much of it in this mean ol world. Wake up Janet. You are dreamin’

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