It is Better for You to Think Success is The Mother of Failure Rather Than Failure is The Mother of Success

  Failure is the Mother of Success is a phrase that deeply stayed in your heart. You may give a lot of examples, like Edison who invented light bulbs and so on, to argue with me why I will say Success is the Mother of Failure. Unlike video games or imaginary life, you can close the computer and open it again. In real life, you won’t have so many times for you to do it again and again. If you killed a person, you would not be able to escape from the police. If you failed to complete the missions from your boss, you would be fired at once. If you died, you would never be able to rebirth. Sometimes once you fail to do so, you will not be able to success anymore.

   On the contrary, why will I think that Success is the Mother of Failure? I don’t know what will think of this statement? or me, it is a negative statement. Let me explain my ideas now! Do you know why there are so many cases of committing suicide in every single year? People burn charcoal at home or jump out of the building at the top of it. You may not consider it because it is none of your business. If you observe deeper, you may find out that they have same characteristics. Most of them could be very rich before. They may have a few houses, a few cars, a few billions of UK dollar. But they have another characteristic which they might be unemployed; they might have lost their money because of gambling and etc. before they died.

   Most of them might have succeeded long, long ago. They might have worked hard, they might have paid a lot of afford on their works, they might have appreciated by their bosses and even their colleagues and they might have succeeded when they were young. When they succeeded in their works for a while, they would forget every thing. They would forget how much have they paid; they would forget there is no free lunch for you. Later, they would start overspending. Even if they may overspend a lot, they would not notice. It is because they have forgotten success is not easy to achieve and many of us cannot success even if they have worked for more than half of a decade. And this is why I tell you Success is the Mother of Failure.

   For me, there is no a definite definition of “Success” and “Failure”. Even if I cannot be the youngest millionaire in the world, it won’t think that I am a failure. It is because there are so many of you are not the youngest millionaire too! Once I can achieve my goals, I will be happy. I won’t think that I am a successful person because there are more than a million of things that I cannot achieve yet.

   To conclude, those who are not succeeded yet never think of you are a failure when you are failed to do something. But if you think you are succeeded, never think of you are a successful person. And only this can always remind you “Success is the Mother of Failure”!