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Just Do It: Avoiding Procrastination

Procrastination achieves nothing. Don’t be swayed by negative opinions. If you want to try something new, just do it. Experience life to its fullest.

At a recent speech competition I attended I heard a speaker remind us that procrastination achieves nothing. Why put off something you want to do, simply because someone else says you can’t or shouldn’t. Why limit your experiences because you don’t believe in yourself. The speaker’s simple message was, just do it.

I’m sure we can all think of things we wanted to do, but never got around to. The logical side of us listens to our inner voice and the outwardly vocal voice of others. We hear all sorts of reasons why we shouldn’t do whatever it is we’ve thought of. How many times have you backed away from doing something from fear of failure or because of what other people might think of you.

Learning to ignore the negative opinions of others takes time. Some of us let many opportunities pass by, simply because we listen to our inner voice and the voice of others. Fear of failure is part of this. How many times have you failed to do something, simply to avoid being rejected or failing? You don’t apply for the job because you probably won’t get it. You don’t enter the competition because others are better than you. You turn down a fun opportunity because you’ve never been very good at it or because others may laugh at you.

The simple answer to all these reasons is, so what! Who cares? If you don’t try something you want to do, you’ll never know whether you’re good at it or not. You’ll never know whether it may have been fun. You’ll never know if you may have been successful. If you don’t set goals and aim for them, you’ll never know what you can achieve.

I’m not sure who actually said it first, but it is well known that the only failure is failing to try. We could spend our lives sitting around, safely within our comfort zone, becoming an increasingly boring person.

As a society we have become too prone to analyse why something should or should not be attempted. We are too focused on whether or not something is good for us. We are too precious about our image and worry about what others may think of us. Who cares? Probably not the very people whose opinion we are worried about. And, is it anything to do with them anyway?

Next time something appeals to you, something you’ve never tried before, don’t be put off by the opinion of others. Don’t spend time analysing whether you should do it or not. Don’t wait until the time is right. That time may never come.

Learn to trust your instinct. When your instinct tells you to something, believe in it. Be bold. Forget about your fears and the opinion of others. Just go ahead and do it. Whether you succeed or fail, the experience will have added value to your life.

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  1. ShadowPsychos

    On May 11, 2010 at 4:25 am


    good write :)

  2. Anuradha Ramkumar

    On May 11, 2010 at 5:40 am


    Excellent one. What you said is very true, unless you try you will never be able to succeed. When I told I’m going to leave my regular 9-5 job and take up freelancing as my career, many discouraged me saying this is something impossible. I took up the challenge and I’m happy to be a freelance writer.

  3. Lord Banks

    On May 11, 2010 at 6:33 am


    Very wise words, someone famous said, never regret what you have done, only what you haven’t! and its true, my Dear ole dad always used to say to me “Life isn’t a reheasal its a one time only deal, do what you want to do because you wont get a second chance”. Excellent article. LB

  4. ronthoughts

    On May 11, 2010 at 6:38 am


    Another thoughtful write here Val.
    Thanks for the share.
    Liked!
    SU’d.

  5. Christine Ramsay

    On May 11, 2010 at 6:39 am


    I am guilty of this. I am sure I could have done so much more with my life if I hadn’t feared constant rejection. This article has made me take stock. Well done.

    Christine

  6. lillyrose

    On May 11, 2010 at 7:11 am


    Great advice. I have a habit of doing just this, I always have a reason why I shouldn’t do something rather than why I should!

  7. Hazel Crowther

    On May 11, 2010 at 7:52 am


    Nice subject and nicely put.

  8. drelayaraja

    On May 11, 2010 at 9:18 am


    Great write…

  9. Tina Cassello

    On May 11, 2010 at 9:38 am


    It took me a lot of years to learn this, but I always knew that if I did not act spontaneously when I first got a feel about what I should do, I would wind up talking myself out of it. I heard a very interesting presentation “Cultivation Shamelessness” by a young man at our 2010 Creative Chicago and he gave me even more inspiration to take action on things I was always afraid to do. His name is Philip Huang and he’s at youtube.com/user/spider75berkeley.

  10. Pete Marshall

    On May 11, 2010 at 9:55 am


    I would have commented sooner but I just…………….. LOL

    Excellent article & some very good advice

  11. yes me

    On May 11, 2010 at 2:14 pm


    Here! here, couldn’t say it better…. cheers

  12. Val Mills

    On May 11, 2010 at 3:53 pm


    Thanks all, it took me years to even start taking this on board myself. Now I’m more inclined to leap first and work out the hows and whys later.

  13. Guy Hogan

    On May 11, 2010 at 4:57 pm


    I think the most important thing is the journey and not the destination. So, you may as well go for the gusto.

  14. giftarist

    On May 11, 2010 at 5:10 pm


    Great insights shared here, friend. Well said.

  15. Alixander Haban Escote

    On May 11, 2010 at 5:46 pm


    I like it! Keep on reading! Keep on writing! Cheers!

  16. Authoress Terry E. Lyle

    On May 11, 2010 at 9:06 pm


    I like it and your truth in his article.

  17. VTech

    On May 11, 2010 at 9:48 pm


    Good Post

  18. Karen Gross

    On May 12, 2010 at 2:34 am


    I’m glad I finally got around to reading this article. I was president of the Procrastinators Anonymous club in my high school. I graduated in 83 and we still haven’t gotten around to having our first meeting. In college, I lived by the motto “the sooner you get behind, the more time you’ll have to catch up.”

    I’ve always wanted to try stand up comedy. Maybe I’ll get around to that someday.

    Great article, fun to read.

  19. Citra Florenca

    On May 12, 2010 at 3:19 am


    Learn to trust your instinct. When your instinct tells you to something, believe in it ==> my favorite part.

    My heart does say something for me to do, I’m gonna follow her. Inspiring article!

  20. Sharif Ishnin

    On May 12, 2010 at 10:16 am


    So true.There’s a saying that says wasting time is the biggest sin of all. Is that you crossing the finish line?:)

  21. Shirley Shuler

    On May 12, 2010 at 8:32 pm


    Great post, Val, and I couldn’t agree more!

  22. V rank

    On May 14, 2010 at 7:47 pm


    This article inpires me to make another related article… thank you van as usual…

  23. PR Mace

    On May 15, 2010 at 12:17 am


    You are a wise women. Glad I finally stop procrastinating and became a writer. Was the you in the last picture?

  24. PR Mace

    On May 15, 2010 at 12:18 am


    Sorry it has been a long work week. I meant was that you and not the you and I call myself a writer.

  25. Val Mills

    On May 15, 2010 at 12:25 am


    Yes, Sharif and Pam, that is me about three years ago when I regularly went in women’s triathlons. I should get back to it!

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