Kind Words Create Better Relationships

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“In the beginning was the word, and the word was God” – all religions agree on this. God has given divinity to the words, and has made them powerful. Impressions created by words penetrate deeper than X-rays and lodge themselves in your innermost self.

One can see image of words through the expressions on the speaker’s face, and that gives life to them. More the passion they are uttered with, longer do they live.

A few words and an accompanying look can give birth to a good relationship or ruin a fine one.

We find how some people get their things done and are the objects of envy for others. They radiate a positive energy wherever they go. No one can say “no” to them. How do they achieve this? Does personality count in their success in interpersonal relationships? More than 90% of them achieve this by their words. Is it hard to believe?

Think before you talk: use thoughtful words:

Some people are good at this. For others it is achieved only through practice. To think is to avoid hurting others inadvertently.

Have a good vocabulary of nice words, positive and real mood up lifters:

I am not suggesting hypocrisy in words or gestures. Any intelligent person can make out falsehood in the other. Feel the words you utter and use kind words generously.

Learn the vocabulary of appreciation:

How do you feel when someone appreciates you for your creativity or talent? You feel you have been injected with vitamins. You want to exhibit more of you. You try harder. Transfer this positive energy to others as well. Try to appreciate each one for what he is. Each one has at least one great quality.

Sport a smile when you talk:

Our worry is that the smile may not be returned. Do not worry about that. Your returns will definitely be positive.

Well disposed critic’s vocabulary:

If a need arises to criticise, start with good words of praise. Mention the mistake only once and lay stress on the solution and avoiding it. End with friendly words.

Do not use argumentative words:

Give up the temptation to argue and put others down. Words are powerful, but human ego is more powerful. At the most, you can express your points convincingly with nice words.

Do not hesitate to express gratitude:

The most powerful word you can add to your daily vocabulary is “thanks”. Even small acts of kindness should be rewarded with words. Say it with all your heart, ungrudgingly.

Aviod tempting words that ridicule:

Words of sarcasm and ridicule are fun. But they kill relationships instantly.

No other place is better than home to start practising your new vocabulary of winning words.

I would love to repeat mother Teresa’s words here. “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are endless.”