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Learn From Your Life

Life is a roller coaster ride and we can not deny that. Sometimes we go through a joyous ride and sometimes life becomes very stressful. We take wrong decisions; we take right decisions as well. This is an ongoing process and life teaches us many things. We learn a lot from our experiences.

So what we learn from our life? Below are the some important lessons that we learn from life…

 

  • Often what we see is not the reality. We misjudge people. When someone lies to you, it teaches that things are not always what they seem. You need to see beyond the mask of the people to know what actually they are and it’s important for you to be honest with others. So remove your mask as well.
  • Cherish the present as nothing lasts forever. Always appreciate what you have and do not waste your time thinking what you do not have. So do not take your friends and family for granted; you never know when you are going to lose them.
  • When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can, it’s the one thing that you are sure to have forever.
  • When someone dislike you or conflict with you do not get disappointed or angry. It only shows two people are never the same. Do not judge anyone by their looks and acts. You should look into their hearts to know what kind of personality they are.
  • Love is the most precious thing of life. So when someone breaks your heart do not think that love doesn’t exist. It only means and proves that when you love someone- not always that person will love you back. But at the same time when you get the right person, the joy that you experience – will certainly make up all of your past grieves. Say always ‘yes’ to love.
  • Learn to forgive others. When you feel that someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches that everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, it’s better to forgive other without any pretence. Forgiving those who have hurt you and did injustice is a very hard thing. It needs a lot of courage to do that. But if you can do that; it will make you a better person.
  • When you feel that you are cheated or your loved one is unfaithful to you, it gives you an important lesson. It teaches you that we get tempted very easily and lose our way. It is very important for us to resist the temptation. This is one of the biggest challenges in life that we face. If you can resist the temptation you will get a sense of satisfaction that is far greater that the temporary pleasure that you get when tempted.
  • Many times in our lives, people cheat us. If you face this type of situation then remember this teaches you an important and basic lesson; and that is- in this world, good and evil both exist. Greed is the root of the evil. So avoid the greed and the evil, try to be on the good side of life all the time. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be. But never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.
  • When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.
  • When you enter someone’s life, think what you can give to her/him. Be honest with that person, spread love, and honesty. Do not influence anyone with negativity. If you love someone, make that person’s life happier and full of positivity.
  • Think for a moment what you want to leave behind when you die. Will people remember you for your goodness or for your vice? Remember when you die, if people cry for you that means, you did a good job in your life. It’s a worst thing if people feel happy when you are no more. So spread love, balance your life between love and power, bring more joy to your life and to the others. You have all the power to be a either a good human being or destroy your own life. Choice is yours. Use your power wisely.

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  1. Atanacio

    On October 25, 2009 at 9:30 am


    a good entry.. really

  2. Petalm

    On October 25, 2009 at 9:39 am


    Words of wisdom.

  3. ken bultman

    On October 25, 2009 at 9:54 am


    Very good philosophy.

  4. diamondpoet

    On October 25, 2009 at 9:58 am


    Nicely put life does have it’s up and downs and we have to deal with it, and not simply want to get off.

  5. raman13

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:05 am


    good

  6. CHAN LEE PENG

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:05 am


    Thanks for your good advice here.

  7. martie

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:09 am


    Nice article.

  8. LOVELYHONEY

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:49 am


    what a wonderful write
    rgds

  9. deep blue

    On October 25, 2009 at 11:03 am


    I absolutely like what I’ve just read my friend. As life unfolds, we have our way of interpreting reality as it manifests. A clear glass would most certainly show the color of the substance being placed inside it when it is clean. Nice thoughts to ponder.

  10. Frances Lawrence

    On October 25, 2009 at 11:27 am


    A very interesting article.

  11. alc

    On October 25, 2009 at 12:53 pm


    A great article!

  12. Darla Cooke

    On October 25, 2009 at 1:32 pm


    Excellent advice.

  13. Christine Ramsay

    On October 25, 2009 at 2:28 pm


    A very good lesson for this Sunday. Something we can all learn from. Inspiring work.

    Christine

  14. Goodselfme

    On October 25, 2009 at 2:33 pm


    Well stated with many messages of truth.TX

  15. Mary Patricia Bird

    On October 25, 2009 at 2:43 pm


    When we do not forgive we are only hurting ourselves. Those we don’t forgive don’t even know or care. You forgive for yourself more than you do for the other.

    I love number 11.

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