Learning to Forgive

Once someone told me that for success in life
Had to love, forgive and forget. At that time it told me a friend, ten years later has told me the
Life. And is only to use these three words constantly
We live in peace and harmony with ourselves.
The rest will come later.
If we have inner peace, internal serenity and spiritual tranquility
Everything else will furthermore.
Let us not forget that forgiveness is the basis of love, forgive means
Closing cycles and give the opportunity to start new, leaving behind
Any ghost.

We all know that there are circumstances and situations in life
Where forgive and forget becomes difficult, the murder of a loved
For example, a rape, betrayal by the loved person.
Finally, I could mention number of situations that we can fill life
Hatred, resentment and pain and anguish. And in such situations may appear
Crazy, the love, forgive and forget. We must, however, take into account that in doing so the only benefit us, because it is ourselves who we are releasing bitter, feelings is us who you are cleaning
The walls of the heart and feeding the heart with sweetness.

It is not easy. I say this experience, especially because the majority of situations before exposed them I have lived, and not refuse that at times me hundí in the sadness, pain, hatred, in desperation, and if I wanted revenge me. But at the end I realized
Me did damage, the accumulation of both bad memory me lastimaba the soul and me alejaba inner peace. Was then understood, and that the other person that had hurt me was probably paying another form their mistakes, if life you had failed invoice yet surely is in the waiting list.

If you decided to begin to live my life, and begin the work of healing and dress the wounds. The past, yesterday and everything injure us we must together it all, and save it in a trunk. Leave it there, and not open it throughout the process. Already come the time in which we are ready for the time of acceptance for the moment of dealing with all the things that made us damage, and then is possible that derramemos a couple of tears, but no longer be of hatred, anger, or pain. Will the tears of forgiveness, acceptance tears. At that time take the trunk of the groans and do with the it our hearts indicating.

I threw it away to fund the sea, and sometimes go to the place where me deshice of, but not to cry. But to remind me that I am human, that there are moments in which I suffer, but I am much stronger than the suffering and any other thing you want to hurting me. I look towards the sea, respite that air of freedom and start to walk along the sand, in the same way that road in life, soft, slow, but steadily.

 It was not the night, nor was miraculous way. However, as were passing the days I saw on my face drawn a smile. A smile that time had therefore extrañado.

 Only love can cover multitude of faults. If us we love ourselves, we love everything that surrounds us, and love is the best way of forgiveness.