Masquerade Emotions. “The Mask”, I Know You

Should not be taken too tragically happens, it’s not always a manifestation of hypocrisy is something wrong and improper, and therefore you should not condemn those who show.
After all, you regularly use one of the “masks” that are in your range, because sometimes, too, sometimes trying to hide their emotions from a certain person.
Think for a moment that you wanted to show a person in such a “masquerade” and that while you feel in reality.

So what makes people use the “mask” to hide their true emotions?
And the reasons for such behavior, there may be several, but foremost among them, of course, is commonplace fear, which may be due to various circumstances.

It is possible that a person experiences fear of being misunderstood his entourage who were not accepted and condemned by society. Most of us are simply afraid to be honest, because we think that in this situation, we become too vulnerable. And so we try to use a kind of protection means, and is the most hypocritical.

But our fear is based on low self-esteem, for example, about the fact that we are not good enough or are not so clever, but because we are trying to hide the real feelings that are present within us.

But just as can reason and your partner, and anyone from the environment.
And if you notice that someone is showing the hypocrisy with respect to you, you should show leniency because this person just shows their behavior is present within him discomfort, he simply does not feel safety in your presence.
And other possible scenario, in fact likely that you’ve done something wrong, trying to assert themselves at the expense of that person.

But even if so, how should we behave if you clearly understand the presence of hypocrisy in this or that person? In fact, in most cases, we make conclusions about a dishonest man, and then take offense to it.
Sometimes we evinces his resentment in his face, sometimes just to part with this man, and yet if you look – it’s the most simple ways to solve problems, but they are not at all correct.
So much so that when a person important to you, or you plan to build a serious relationship with him, you should not follow the path of least resistance, it is better to use another method, which, although it will require you to annex some effort, but ultimately will prove most promising.
And if you decide to use it, then it is necessary to begin to recognize that the true purpose of your partner is not an attempt to mislead you, but to protect themselves from you, for whatever reasons.

After that, you need to analyze the cause of what is happening, remember at what point you make a mistake and was forced to experience the fear of man in front of you on this or any other reason.
And therefore you are required to change their own patterns of behavior, that this feeling of fear from the man is gone, and in your community, he began to feel quite comfortable.

But these tips will benefit only if you yourself are sincere in their feelings toward this man and truly wish to improve relations with him, and absolutely no effort to change the person or his behavior.
Indeed, in this case, you expect a rude awakening, as it is hypocritical to consider would be you, and then partner disengage from you even more.

So, hypocrisy – do not fault!