Overcoming Life Challenges

Here I sit writing advice on how a real person develops little strategies to overcome the challenges that life throws our way on a day to day basis.

Do you wonder what my qualifications are, or what gives me the right to be able to advise others? That’s a question I can answer for you. You see, it’s really quite simple. I am the real live person, and I am only writing about my own life experience, not anyone else’s, not copying from a textbook, however I will refer to things I have learned and found along the way that have helped me, when indicated.

I am the real life guinea pig, so you can rest assured that any advice I have given, I have used myself and developed an opinion as to whether or not it works. What doesn’t work is not published here. That will be another story in itself, there are too many strategies that don’t work to publish here, as I would be writing all day! These are things I have read about, thought about, and gotten advice about, and put into practice in my own life. I will share them with you hoping that one person gets the advice they need, and is able to make life better. I learned this from living, and taking the advice of people who have lived for a very long time, some of them outliving their children and friends.

The first peek at what I have to share is this: if nothing more, get rid of the attitude! What attitude you ask? THE attitude…whatever it might be. The “I will never” or the “I just can’t” or the “it won’t work for me”. If you think that way, it’s true! Develop a new attitude, an “I can” or “it’s gonna work” attitude. Get a NEW ATTITUDE! I don’t care if nothing in your life has ever worked before and you are positive that nothing ever will, GET RID of that attitude, because with it, you ensure that nothing good will ever happen to you, and you draw all bad things. This is common sense folks…have you ever seen someone with that kind of attitude succeed at anything? Of course not, so how could that work for you? It can’t! All I want to hear from you now is “I can, I will, I’m worth it”. Those three phrases should work for now, as I realize you are new at this.