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Strong Facade: Hurting, Crying and Dying Inside

by monique menorca in Advice, August 16, 2009

What is the real emotion behind the most admired strong facade? Is a person who displays a strong facade or personality really strong and happy?

Strength, power,dominion- they are all the focus of strong personalities nowadays. Let us talk about their “real” person behind that mask which project a very strong and well balanced character. Are they really happy? Or have they been wishing just to be who they really are so they can be happy?

Most people have these kind of issues. Which originated from their families. Some families measure the importance of their members based on what they have achieved and not on what they have become. Material things weighs more than reaching the stage of being a GOOD Person. As it is always an issue of what good have you given the family in its material sense-MONEY.

To be honest to have members of the family who have a good nature is worth more than a chest of gold. As this kind of wealth is a priceless legacy which the whole family could be proud of.

It projects the innate greatness of the whole clan and it makes the blood line flowing with  pride and honour for generations to come.

All of these pretentious behaviour manifest when you become a  pleas er. You are unique and you must go out and discover yourself responsibly. There would be twist and turns but eventually you would find your way and become a learned.

Start doing things your own responsible way and prove to your family that you can be effective and productive without seeking approval from them. You are able to make your dream happen.

Strong will, determination, confidence, skills and your faith will pull everything through for you. There is no point in wasting time.

Make a plan, do your research, prepare the feasibility study, implement the plan with options for contingency.

Once  you learn how to survive on your own and live independently away from the intervention of your family, you could say that, it is a start of a HAPPY life.

You no longer need to project a strong facade to earn every body’s respect. As you would have that once you gather your act together and do things responsibly with a touch of professionalism- that would be your magic formula towards a blissful start. Everybody would be mesmerized with your awesome transformation.

Why don’t you try it?

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