Telling a Lie is Noticeable. How?
by In our everyday lives, it is expected that we commit mistakes, and one of these mistakes is telling lies. Why do we have to tell lies?
We may ask why! But we must have to remember that nobody is perfect in this world and that all of us are telling lies. Telling lies is already part of our system and we seldom keep away from doing so.
By the way, will you consider telling “white lies” a mistake? A sin? For me, no matter what your reasons are, as long as you are telling lies, you’ve made a mistake! If you are telling a lie, it is the same as you are putting mud in your head. Telling lies is not justifiable because it will surely have outcome, a bad outcome, and that; the secret can’t be hidden forever. The secret would sooner or later come out and you will just display a frown or a sarcastic smile in your face.
But how will we know if someone is not telling the truth? We all know that “lie detector test” will not give us zero percentage of error. And besides, it is so expensive! So, we must have to find other means on how to determine is someone is telling the truth or a lie?
Actually, there are many things that you must have to consider and you must have to be a keen observant to justify your judgment. The first determinant (symptom, per se) that someone is telling a lie is his physical expression or what we call as body language. It is indeed noticeable that if someone is telling a lie, there will be a change in the way he talks and the way he looks at you. It is also obvious is someone is telling a lie if he will feel uneasy, thus, having few arm and hand movements. So, you must have to observe for the first symptom.
You must have to be curious enough in determining the authenticity of the topic or words presented to you somebody. If you are not sure about what he said, try looking at him with the eye. We all know that liars avoid making eye contact because they are afraid that they will be discovered for being such a liar. So, if he really wants you to believe on what he is saying, have eye contact with him. If he does, good! If not, then, you better not believe him! But of course, don’t make initial judgment! Make sure before making any move so as not to make another mistake…not on his part but yours.
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