Ten Things a Person Should Know About Finding Himself

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Ten Things I have started to realize as I’m finding myself as a person ( I know it sounds a Lil funny but sometimes even as adults we think we know ourselves.  Honestly until pushed to your limits DO YOU REALLY KNOW WHO YOU ARE??)

1. After high school it doesn’t matter anymore who your friends are or were.  Honestly life changes entering adulthood.  You need to step up and take charge of things.  If you don’t your life will spiral out of control.
2. Having the best of everything isn’t the most important thing in life.  You can’t buy love and happiness.  Money is necessary to make it in life, but all the money in the world cant buy you love and happiness FOREVER…And if it does your very vane and mistaken.
3. Only you can change a situation you put yourself in.  Yes you can get help from people.  However, first you must be willing to help yourself.
4. Just because you have 1000 friends doesn’t mean anything.  It is better to have 1 or 2 close friends who are truly a friend.  Than a million people who are more of acquaintances in life.  More than likely most of the 1000 or million people don’t have your best interest at heart!
5. The person you were at 16, 17, and 18.  Shouldn’t be the man or woman you are as young adult.  Its called GROWING UP…You should leave the childish ways to teenagers and children. LIES NEVER GET YOU AHEAD THEY JUST MAKE IT MORE COMPLEX.
6. Being a caring person is great…But sometimes as adults we can’t jeopardize our lives to help another person out.
7. You should not bottle up your feelings because it will end up blowing up on you.  Find someone you can TRULY trust to talk to.  Sometimes an outside prospective will make you step back and look at the BIG PICTURE…Instead of your inside the box view.
8. Embrace what you have because who knows when it’ll be gone.  Finding yourself is a process.  JUST REMEMBER DON’T LET IT CONSUME YOU. Know yourself and be true. It will get you a lot farther in life.
9.  You must realize you are HUMAN, we all have FLAWS and all make mistakes.  No one is perfect…
10. YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, BEFORE YOU CAN LOVE YOURSELF OR EMBRACE THE LOVE FROM OTHERS…