Ten Ways for a Man to Tell a Woman I LOVE YOU

1 . LISTEN

 Number one and this is a big one guys!LISTEN! and I mean really listen when she talks.  Women do not want advice, unless asked for, even if she says “I don’t know what to do,” resist the urge to tell her what to do.  Instead say something like,  Gee Honey that’s a tough problem or a raw deal your getting: Your really dealing well with it .  Let me know if there is anything I can do to help. Then give her a big hug. This shows support, compassion, and that you have confidence in her ability to handle things.  IT SAYS I LOVE YOU!

2. COMPLIMENTS

Genuine truly meant compliments are music to a woman’s ears.  Whatever it is she does well tell her.  Here’s a little hint for you guys.  Yes, we women love to hear that we’re pretty, I admit it,  but after a few years of marriage we know ,you know your suppose to say it so try this instead. Tell her somebody else paid her a compliment, like so and so at work told me I’m lucky to have a wife with such great_____________.  Now maybe your wife is overweight or whatever so don’t be stupid about this, we know when you’re lying.  Make sure its a real compliment like about her hair, smile, eyes or whatever it is she has going for her.

3. APPRECIATE

Say Thank you for everything she does.  Take nothing for granted.  My hubby calls me everyday from work to thank me for his lunch which he says is the highlight of his workday.  Consequently I view making his lunch as a joy not a chore and strive to make it as delicious, and healthy! I want him to live a long long time, as possible.,

4.FLOWERS

Wildflowers picked on the side of the road mean more than dozens of roses.  Because you thought about her, then took the time to pick them. Other articles of nature work well too.  I still have a heart shaped rock an old boyfriend gave me.

5. COFFEE, TEA, OR………..

My Wonderful husband who gets up first makes me a pot of coffee (he doesn’t drink t) every morning.  Just the smell makes me feel loved and loving, if you get my drift fellas.  If she doesn’t drink coffee then her fave morn beverage will do.  If she gets up first buy a pot with a timer and make it every night before you go to bed.

6. NOTHING  IS SEXIER THAN A MAN DOING DISHES!

Several times a month take over a chore she hates, just because you love her!

7.SLEEP

Let her sleep in sometimes. Take the kids and go somewhere.  NO KIDS!  Sleep in too, then bring her coffee and pastry in bed!

8.Rub a Dub Dub

We loved to be rubbed, our feet, heads, backs, legs, the list goes on…………

9. BUBBLE BATH

Fill the tub with warm water and lots of bubbles. Lay out a nice soft towel. Light a few candles. Pop in some relaxing music.  Pour a glass of wine and take her by the hand.

10.ROMANCE

When your in the mood don’t forget her mood, candles, soft music, and lighting go a long way.  You don’t have to do this every time, because then that will become routine.  Once a month or every six weeks is good.  For more tips on spicing things up be sure and read my next article 10 ways to spice it up!

Good luck and Happy Loving!