Things That Men Want in a Woman

I’ve grown to notice over time that men and women will never completely understand each other.  Men are often confused by why a woman makes the decisions that she does, and women also tend to find difficulty in detecting the depths of a man’s feelings for her.  I heard a quote from a show on BET called “One on One” earlier this week in a scene where men and women were debating on the other sex’s issues, and I found it very interesting and true!  A man in the debate said “You women don’t know what you want in a man!” and a woman fired back at him, “And you men want everything in a woman!”  I believe this is very true, and so now I will list a few things to aide women in their never-ending quest to discover what men want in women.

1. Physical Attractiveness

   Yes ladies, usually this is the first thing that we men notice about you.  But how could you blame us?  The first thing that happens when you meet someone new is you get a visual of the person.  Believe it or not, God made you women in the perfect way to compliment us inversely.  For example, we have tense breasts and you have cushiony breasts.  And its not that men are expecting every woman to look like a model, we just want you to know your body and just how to show it off, whether you’re thin, average, or large.  Bigger women are just as attractive as the thinner and average sized women when they know how to dress!

2. Confidence

   Along with the beauty tips comes the self-esteem issues.  Ladies often ask each other “Do these pants make my butt look big?” or “Does this dress make me look fat?”  A man’s idea of unattractive is most certainly different from a woman’s idea, so why ask your girl-friend when you can ask your boy friend?  Men love a woman with swagger and grace, and neither of those can be achieved if you constantly call yourself cruel words such as “ugly” or “dirty” and even “fat” when you look at yourself in the mirror.  Having self-esteem in a well place tends to make you smile more often and have a nicer personality, which is a pro in our eyes.

3. Personality

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   Lets be honest, nobody likes a (bad word for female dog here).  No matter how beautiful your face is or well rounded your hips are and perky your breasts are, if your not equally beautiful on the outside too, then most men wont want to be around you for long, let alone keep you around for a real relationship.  If you are in a bar or a club, and a hideous ogre looking man approaches you, dont be rude and just down talk him with words like “you are way beneath me” or “not a chance” if his approach is respectful.  There will always be others watching you, so if you shoot one man out the sky with a 12-gauge, then a spectator who you are interested in will be less likely to approach you.

After you’ve checked these three topics, then you should probably look into a further investigation of your desired man’s wants.  However, these three ( Physical Attractiveness, Confidence, and Personality ) are most definitely always going to be in play and checked out when a man is evaluating another fellow woman.  Keep your heads high women, and remember that every man of the world is born of a woman, therefore making you necessary.  Look forward to seeing more information from me on this topic later, and I hope that this helps you all!  God bless!