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Tips for Your Love

by Kalaiselvan in Advice, January 18, 2009

Here are Some Much Needed Tips For Setting Up Your Love…

·         It does not make you a bad person to wish someone else’s love, even if they do not love you. However, to truly love someone, you must let them be free. It is self-centered to blame them for your feelings.

·         There are many types of love, for instance: a mother-son love is poles apart from a best friend’s love, which is different from a romantic love. Don’t be embarrassed to tell anyone that you love your friends as much as you love anyone else in your life.

·         You have to find someone that will go well with you, someone you feel comfortable with – not just someone to make love to.

·         As a word, love can be found worldwide and is often used to portray compassion and/or emotional attachment. Accepting those you love for who they are is part of love. You also need to learn to accept yourself before you can accept another. If you cannot love your self, how are you to love another?

·         You must love yourself before you can love another, because that will give a sense of solitude to your partner.

·         Love genuinely. Do not compare your feelings now to what your feelings were when you were with another mate. At times, we can experience negative response.

·         Understand that love is an emotion that anyone can describe and attempt to assist, but eventually, you are the one who must take action in order to discover love.

·         Do things that make the other person feel good, but do not suffocate them with gifts and attention.

·         There is always the risk of getting hurt, but that is a part of letting you fully love and trust some one. Being hurt could be long-lasting and could hurt more than anything in the world.

·         If something comes to an end, try to let go rather than holding on; it’s for the best.

·         The idea of love is fueled by childhood fantasies. The love shown in movies, as obtainable as it may be, is rare to say the least.

·         You just may find your soul-mate sooner than you want to.

·         If you feel any doubt of love your partner has for you, make sure that your qualms are beached in reality. If you hurt your partner as a result of unwarranted mistrust, he/she may end up doubting both your love for them and theirs for you.

·         Don’t ask for love – you should receive love because your partner wants to give you love – not because you want it from your partner.

·         Do not force love – it will come in good time, it will come.

·         Remember there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody who you love, that you love him/her, and then you have already succeeded in love.

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  1. MariaArte

    On February 1, 2009 at 2:54 pm


    Hi Kalai! I liked your article very much. I think so, too..
    Bye my dear friend.

  2. Kalaiselvan

    On February 1, 2009 at 11:28 pm


    Thanks Maria…

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