To be Loved or to be Hated? It Depends on You

     Have you ever questioned yourself why you have no friends while another has a lot? Have you ever try to explain why somebody always receives so much more encouragement and love from everybody? The answer is exactly the way you treat others. If you are feeling unsatisfied about the way you’re living, try looking at these tips ^^ :

1. Everyone can be friends

      Don’t make yourself think that you should only be close to people who totally understand you and make you feel pleased. That’s a good thing, but in fact you can’t meet a lot of people like that in your life. The truth is that, you can make friends with everyone. They may not be perfect, they share nothing in common with you. However, you can make the kind of friend who is just share a same hobby with you. For example, a person who you always go eating with since you two share the same favourite restaurant, a person who you always chat to cause the way they chat make you feel relaxed… Just by this method, you can make a lot of friends and find real meanings of life.

2. DON’T ever think you are different from others

     You may have different origin, come from different family. You may have been through something very tragic. You may think you are unluckier, weirder or lonelier than others. But that don’t even matter! If you keep thinking you are so different from everyone, you are just avoiding yourself from making friends and chasing away people from you. Try to tell yourself that everybody like you have their own conditions and some secrets they don’t want anybody to know. In a good relationship, we are just the same! Forget all the differences and try to get closer to people yourself first, and others will get closer to you!

3.  Don’t judge a book by its cover

     How many times in your life have you questioned yourself about the reason why you hate somebody? It’s a matter of fact that there are somebody you dislike just by looking at their faces. That’s quite unreasonable! In addition, we usually have the feeling of hating someone when we accidentally saw their mistake. That’s a BIG mistake! You should never judge anyone’s personality just by looking at their bad side! Try to place yourself under others’ circumstance to understand their feelings and think about them more positively. Someday you will find in them good sides that you yourself have to learn from.