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Twist and Turning You Inside Out

Learning how to relax and flow through the unexpected rough spots in our lives.

Life is nothing but a continuing cyclic journey of surprising “twists and turns” that at times, appear contrary to the direction in which we are wanting to head.  In fact, the road may abruptly stop throwing us in the opposite direction. Leaving us in a tailspin; confused, angry, bewildered, and uncertain as to what our next step is supposed to be. Instead of calmly reassessing the situation to note what “new” element may have been added, and how THAT element can enlighten, inspire and propel, we usually end up in a panicky state, trying to “hold on” or “get back” what we assume has been lost.  Nothing has been lost.  All things are precisely in order according to a Divine/Universal/Cosmic Plan, we are not privy to at the time.  If we could but remember that there is always a third silent partner acting in all of our endeavors {better referred to as the unknown variable}, we may save ourselves a lot of self-induced anxiety and forlorn grief.  The trouble arises because we are so determined to arrive at our destination, (a specific goal oriented target) we miss the opulent story of our life unfolding each moment.  

In truth, how do we REALLY know where we are headed?  So many times, people pursue things vehemently, that in the end bring them nothing but unhappiness. And, other times people seek after things for the wrong reasons, either to please another or because it will make them a lot of money, supposedly. Neither of these objectives can ever fulfill. How many times, in your own life, have you heard the stories of people who accidentally stumbled into their passion by what appeared to be, at first, an unfortunate circumstance or situation?  Or, that by involving themselves in something they had no intention of following, ended up finding their true joy?  This could occur from volunteering, being at the so-called right place at the right time or simply placing one foot in front of the other each day without a concrete plan of action.  In other words, letting your life unfold naturally without a preset determined course of action can offer opportunities more than you could ever dream up or imagine. There’s no doubt that life is a mysterious creature that not only continuously surprises us but constantly forces us to draw upon resources we may not be aware of. We are designed to ascend to heights yet unseen but will not push ourselves unless acted upon from outside forces. {A natural law of physics}  Enter: the unexpected events of our lives.

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  1. Christine Ramsay

    On March 13, 2009 at 10:15 am


    I really liked this article. It is so well written. It explains why our lives often take unexpected turns. I have taught all my life. Now I am retired and I accidentally stumbled on Triond. I wrote very little before. Now I am writing all the time and loving it. Good work or should I say three housepoints.

    Christine

  2. Paula Andrea

    On March 26, 2009 at 8:33 pm


    Christine,

    Thank you with my warmest regards. You are so kind and responsive to me as well as with all others who come in contact with you. I’m so glad we met here on Triond.

  3. Melissa Ryan

    On April 5, 2009 at 11:46 am


    Thanks…liked your article…the last line really stuck out.

  4. Paula Andrea

    On April 5, 2009 at 6:39 pm


    thanks! Melissa,

    As I have lived and learned, the one element of life that sticks out the most to me IS the last line. I appreciate your insight. Best to you…

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