Some people are annoyed to those who always give unsolicited advice. Why they can’t wait to be asked before sharing their solutions to the problem?
A person who always give unsolicited advice is often misunderstood by others. Well, if that person who give unsolicited advice is close to us, we might appreciate it but even then, not all the time that we need that kind of advice specially if we don’t ask for one. There are people who just share their problems because they want someone to listen to them, they just need an outlet of what they feel but not necessarily that they need advice of what to do unless they will ask for it. Some people who give advice are very pushy, they would tell you to follow it because that is the best thing to do to solve the problem and this situation is very annoying. I encountered some people who are doing this. They will give their advice of what is the best thing to do even if you are not asking them. They are very insistent that you will do what they say because you will regret in the future if you will not follow their advice.
It’s hard to deal with people who are like this. It is very annoying when somebody would tell you what to do specially if that thing is not what you want to do. There are those who are really sincere in sharing their solutions to the problem but not all the time it fits to the need. Some are sharing their unsolicited advice just to be recognized without thinking that this might turned off the interest of people to be with them. In my opinion, giving unsolicited advice is kind of rude specially if we are not close to the person we are giving the advice. If they are just mere acquaintance, we better shut our mouth and wait for the time they will need our help.
There are people who can tolerate to listen to the advice they don’t need but there are those who would voice out and say, they don’t need that advice and that is very embarrassing to the one who share the advice unsolicited. This is why, we must put ourselves in a safe ground in giving advice to people. We will wait for them to ask our help to find solution to their problem so that we can not offend somebody and we will not be offended also in return. Unsolicited advice is not always welcome by all people. It might work for others at certain times.