What Draws Others to Me

Here are some things that I have learnt over the years of life. Everybody wants people to be drawn to them. But how? The answerer is charisma.

• Concern
• Help
• Action
• Results
• Influence
• Sensitivity
• Motivation
• Affirmation

Concern: The Ability To Show You Care

• Let them feel they are important
• If you want people to comeback it’s in the greetings and goodbyes
• Don’t try to sell others on you, try to sell them on themselves and it makes them feel good around you
• When you spend time with the hurt you will feel their needs

Help: The Ability To Reach Out

• All of Gods gifts are to help others not yourself
• Solve problems and people will follow you
• Relate to them because people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care

Action: The Ability To Make Things Happen

• Develop your creativity and confidence
• Use humor to drive home a point

Results: The Ability To Produce

• People like being around winners
• Hope that others win too
• Give your strength to those in need

Influence: The Ability To Lead

Sensitivity: The Ability To Feel And Respond

• To win people you need to tell them what they want to hear

Motivation: The Ability To Give Hope

• The secret of motivation is giving hope

Affirmation: The Ability To Build Up

• Affirm people of their accomplishments
• We become what the most important people in our life think we will become
  Follow those simple things and people will be so attracted to you its unbelievable.