Why Should Girls Not Sleep Around?

Recently an acquaintance of mine was dumped by her Boyfriend because she would not sleep with him. If you ask me I think it is best that the guy is gone from her life because he is not in love with her and all he wanted from her was sex and any girl is better off with such guys. What do you say?

In Indian Culture especially Sex is still something which is considered sacred even though we can boast of the best known of the sex manual Kama Sutra of Vatsayayana.  Even though we ape the west a lot there is a certain amount of morality we keep. Premarital sex used to be a big NO in our culture but with the change of time the Indian values have undergone a lot of changes. But majority of Indian girls still find it difficult to sleep with every Tom, Dick and Harry. Anyways, just because the guy may find you attractive does not mean that you may find him attractive too or have the comfort level or mental compatibility to get physical with him. My point is Sexuality as an integral part of life, a gift to be honored and enjoyed but with limitations. If you want sex and cannot wait to experience it opt for safe sex only.

Here are five reasons why I think a Girl should not sleep around.

1. It can be Dangerous: Many girls are known to have sex with even complete strangers just for the thrill of it. Picking up Guys from the Bar or street comes under this category. Who knows that these guys may vanish with your possessions, turn rapists or even may kill the girl in order to avoid any sort of proof against him? What can you do if the guy abuse you or not use protection when having sex with you? Casual Sex is just not worth the risk.
2. It is Unsafe: When you sleep with Guys who do not care about you and are completely unconcerned about your safety or happiness for few moments of pleasure you may have to go through dangerous consequences including pregnancy, incurable STDs, physical hurt or be victims of rape.
3. Don’t lose your Heart: Many times a physical involvement can make a person feel mentally close too with the guy whom they had sex with. When you have sex with someone who do not love you it may result in you getting hurt or breaking your heart. Many guys once they get their fill of what they want would dump the partner. Physical hurt may vanish fast but mental hurt can stay unhealed for a long time. So why take a risk with your heart at all?
4. You may be characterized as loose character: Majority of Guys does not have a Good opinion of Girls who sleep with them easily. Such girls are often called as sluts or with loose character or morals. Many guys tend to think that ‘she gave in to me so easily so she may have had many before me or even after me too’ and may leave you devastated. Even the society does not think kindly of girls who sleep around. If a Guy sleeps around he may be called a Stud but if a Girl does so she may be called a Slut or even worse.
5. Save your Virginity for Wedding Night: When you save your virginity as a gift to your man on the Wedding night it is a huge boost to a man’s ego. There can be no better gift you can give him and you would also be gaining his trust.

In short, if you want sex then go for safe sex or not at all. When you decide to be intimate with someone or sleep around be ready to face the consequences as well because ultimately one has to take responsibility for their actions. Being modern is nice but not at the cost of your safety or health. Even men may use any number of tactics including promise of love and marriage to get a girl to bed. But it is up to the girl to be safe and protect herself from hurt.

Disclaimer: I am not in any way suggesting all men or Women fall into this category.