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		<title>Whitney Houston a Lesbian?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 09:45:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[He reportedly had a secret affair with a former female assistant. Gay rights activist, Peter Tatchell, now began to dare to express it.. Whitney Houston A Lesbian?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Whitney Houston A Lesbian?</strong>, In the midst of public curiosity to find out the cause of death of pop diva Whitney Houston, a mystery that is not less heat burst. The singer of &#8220;I Will Always Love You&#8221;, which is said to have a mysterious sex life.</p>
<p><i>Whitney Houston A Lesbian?</i>, He reportedly had a secret affair with a former female assistant. Gay rights activist, Peter Tatchell, now began to dare to express it.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s important to tell the truth about aspects of his life,&#8221; said Tatchell told the Daily Star. &#8220;Yes, Whitney is very happy and feel its peak in 1980-a moment with his daughter. They love each other in joy and sorrow,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>&#8220;Perhaps because of his inability to accept and express her love for sex, it contributes to substance abuse,&#8221; said Tachell.</p>
<h4>&nbsp;Whitney Houston A Lesbian?</h4>
<p><a href="http://commons.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:WhitneyHoustonApril2010.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2012/02/17/whitneyhoustonapril2010_1.jpg" alt="" width="540" height="631" border="0" /></a></p>
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<p>Tachell assess her marriage to Bobby Brown is nothing but to cover the rumors that had developed. &#8220;He had married Bobby Brown. It&#8217;s a disaster. His life began to fall after that,&#8221; he explained.</p>
<p>Campaigners based in the UK did not mention the identity of Houston&#8217;s lover. But according to other sources, the woman in question was none other than Robyn Crawford.</p>
<p>Houston and Robyn have known each other since Houston was 16 years old, when they became Monmouth College students. Robyn then get out of school and chose to become a singer.</p>
<p>Houston&#8217;s departure into a very deep sorrow the news for Robyn. Some time after the death of Houston on Saturday (11.02.2012), Robyn spilling his feelings for Houston posted a U.S. magazine.</p>
<p>In his writings, Robyn admitted its first meeting when he was 16 years old. From that meeting, he immediately knew that Whitney is a special person. &#8220;He is a model. He has a very nice color and I have never met in New Jersey. I do not believe that I would never hold her and hear her laugh again,&#8221; wrote Robyn.</p>
<p>The news about his sexual orientation is justified Houston-law, Tina Brown, and his former bodyguard, Kevin Ammons.</p>
<p>Not only that, Bobby Brown, her husband, had also hinted at it. In a biography he wrote, Bobby revealed that her marriage was doomed from the start. &#8220;I think we got married for the wrong reasons. Now, I realize Whitney had a different agenda than I did when we got married.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I believe the agenda is to clean up its image,&#8221; wrote Bobby.</p>
<p>Kevin Ammons even amplifies the signal. He claims to have seen Robyn Whitney slapped when she saw him flirting with men, and very angry when he pledged to be married to Brown.</p>
<p>To cover up his secret, Ammons and even said Houston had paid a former spokeswoman, Regina Brown, for not revealing his love life with Robyn.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s actually already been denied by Houston in 2000. On that occasion, he said, &#8220;I am a mother, so not a lesbian. I am not a lover of the same sex,&#8221; she said.</p>
<h3>Whitney Houston A Lesbian?</h3>
<h3><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Whitney_Houston_GreatestLove.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2012/02/17/whitneyhoustongreatestlove_1.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" border="0" /></a></h3>
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		<title>&#8220;White Collar&#8221;s&#8217; Matt Bomer to Visitor Celebrity as Darren Criss&#8217; Brother</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 16:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The acting professional, who was lately thrown in He Murphy's function &#34;The Regular Center,&#34; is in shares to perform Blaine's mature sister in an May show.]]></description>
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<p>The star of the USA System excitement is near a deal to invitee star in an May show of the Fox musical technology sequence as Blaine&#8217;s (Darren Criss) mature sister, The The show biz industry Writer has verified.</p>
<p>As first revealed by TV Line, Bomer would appear in an May show and reveal a tune with his on-screen sister.</p>
<p>The launching comes per weeks time after THR only revealed that Bomer would become a member of an all-star thrown in Murphy&#8217;s next function, the big-screen version of the Tony-winning excitement The Regular Center.</p>
<p>Bomer&rsquo;s will perform Felix Turner, a gay fashion writer who becomes the partner to Level Ruffallo&#8217;s Ned Weeks and is clinically identified as having HIV. Bomer will be getting into the shoes that won The Big C&#8217;s Bob Ben Hickey his Tony a2z.</p>
<p>The Joy launching represents the newest in a long sequence of high-profile invitee begins this season, many of whom are enjoying close relatives to the show&#8217;s primary thrown. Level Goldblum and Level Stokes Mitchell were thrown the other day to perform Rachel&#8217;s (Lea Michele) gay men, while Gloria Estefan has been utilized to perform the mother to Naya Rivera&#8217;s Santana.</p>
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		<title>Getting to The Point</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 21:12:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting to the point when writing Articles.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you are writing articles the first thing you must think about is your audience. You want to capture your audience to have them coming back for more. You don&rsquo;t want to give them a long drawn out article that&rsquo;s just beating around the bush.&nbsp; Especially if it is a how to article then it should be straight to the point.&nbsp; Now I am not saying to be too brief because than is just as bad what I am saying so to try and get to the point quickly.</p>
<p>When someone reads a good article they remember it and they may possible check out some of your other work as well but when you read something that you can seem to get to the point or is totally something else from the title of the article people tend to not stay to long on your article. So what I&rsquo;m saying basically is to not put too much fluff into your articles and you just might see a big difference.</p>
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		<title>Why Does Anyone Need to Come Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2012 23:09:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the last twenty years there seems to have been a phenomenon of people &#8220;Coming out&#8221; and revealing their homosexuality &#8211; Why?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why Does Anyone Need To &ldquo;Come Out&rdquo;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>For the last twenty years there seems to have been a phenomenon of people &ldquo;Coming out&rdquo; and revealing their homosexuality &ndash; Why?</p>
<p>Surely a person&rsquo;s private life is just that, private.</p>
<p>I have never understood the need to make it known ones sexuality. As a straight bloke, I don&rsquo;t need to express my sexuality or for that matter care what other people believe my sexuality to be. It is not important is it?</p>
<p>Gay and lesbians will do say it is to express themselves or be true to themselves. Maybe it is because I live in the UK, but nobody really cares what you are as long as you don&rsquo;t meddle with kids or are French.</p>
<p>Also is there a real need to &ldquo;Come Out&rdquo;? If a Gay man or a Lesbian reveals to their friends or parents of their sexuality don&rsquo;t said friends and parent already know? After spending a lifetime with your parents, won&rsquo;t they already know and more importantly do they care?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>It is a myth that revealing your sexuality is empowering&hellip;. I hate that word. A myth that is cultivated by the Gay and Lesbian rights movement. The Gay and Lesbian rights movement is its own biggest enemy in attaining full and equal rights.</p>
<p>When promoting &ldquo;Brand Gay&rdquo; the Gay rights movement has made the classic mistake of the using the sex sells approach rather than the we are all equal message. This is evident from the view of the religious groups in their condemnation of homosexuality. If the message of we are all equal had been more promoted, then the church would have very little ammunition to use against Gay and Lesbian people and their lifestyle. But equality isn&rsquo;t attention grabbing is it?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The majority of people couldn&rsquo;t care less with regard to sexuality &ndash; I don&rsquo;t. Maybe when the ones who run the Gay rights and the Church realise this they will shut up and let the world just get on with it</p>
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		<title>The Gay Facts of Being Happy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 14:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, Roland Martin, is the next fame or semi famous person to face the harsh reality of suspension for a comment deem offensive to certain segments of society. The CNN analyst used a parable in football about another famous celebrity male commercial and became another &#8220;ATTACK DOG&#8221; of a group.</p>
<p>While the Gays and Lesbians community cried foul. It won&#8217;t or didn&#8217;t hinder people, from addressing negative comments toward homosexual in society. Jews, Blacks, Italians, Asians&nbsp; talked about like the Muslims daily.</p>
<p>And, yes men states comments probably more concerning gay people in society. In truth, there&#8217;s a phase that uses football positions to comment on gays in society. All because of these positions, within the sport.</p>
<p>If you are the quarterback. You should know the reason why? Or, if you are playing center. You can guess, what&#8217;s getting touched. Now realize it all depends on the way you take the statement. Simply put. You can become a defensive end and cover your special spot. Or request to be safety to alert people, what you are not?</p>
<p>And, what I describe all concern the way you look, at things. Remember, this is the same sports that have males pretending to be all man. Now to take it further. Notice that baseball operates in similar ways too. You could be the batter. The swinger of things. Which brings us to that one spotlighted position called catcher. Which could take you into another homophobic direction.</p>
<p>Gays, within our society should jump in line. That rather the comment came, from someone famous or simply Jay. Yo won&#8217;t stop people from talking about or saying things that seems gay. As people has stated when defining the definition of this word. It stated &#8220;happy&#8221; or&#8221;joyful&#8221; which many gays seems not to understand about themselves.</p>
<p>Oh, sure the representatives loves to comment society needs more education to not the negative toward gays. Well, hadn&#8217;t people stated this about racists in society. Or uninformed politicians professing facts which isn&#8217;t supported by their claims.</p>
<p>Oh, I&#8217;ve better stop before I get accused of promoting sports positions, as gay. Remember, it&#8217;s just how you see things in general.</p>
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		<title>Telltale Signs Your Boyfriend is Gay</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 23:53:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some warning signs from the girl who's been there.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have lots of gay friends as I used to work in the fashion industry &#8212; from fashion forward &ldquo;metrosexuals&rdquo; to overly dressed, flamboyant trannies. Having all these friends may have surrounded me with glittery aura and would make you think I can smell a gay man a mile away but, no &ndash; when it comes to love, it certainly is blind.</p>
<p>Take the case of this twenty something guy I have been friends with for quite a long while. After a devastating break up I had, his shoulder became my refuge where I can cry on. That was the moment things started to look funny and I began to have thoughts of &ldquo;He&rsquo;s cute, why doesn&rsquo;t he have a girlfriend?&rdquo; and I soon learned he hasn&rsquo;t had one <i>ever</i>. So as all rebound relationships go, we went to dating (and yeah he told me he <i>loved</i> me).</p>
<p>When I told my gay friends about him, all of them said: &ldquo;He&rsquo;s gay, but he doesn&rsquo;t know it yet.&rdquo; I scoffed at them. Is there even such a thing? But guess what. After a week, he didn&rsquo;t show up. After several phone calls he finally agreed to meet up and told me it wasn&rsquo;t working out. And he can&rsquo;t stay long to chat as he had to go home and clean the toilet. Clorox = 1, Me = 0.</p>
<p>So here are some of the signs my gay friends warned me about and should have heeded:</p>
<ol>
<li>He likes musicals &#8211; My ex      told me he loved High School Musical and Zac Efron made &ldquo;an outstanding      performance&rdquo;.</li>
<li>He is living with a guy &ndash;      don&rsquo;t get me wrong, I should have smelled this a mile away but the thing      is, the I am good friends with the other guy and his girlfriend and they      definitely are a straight couple.</li>
<li>He turned up on my friends&rsquo;      gaydar &ndash; I think gay men give off a scent much like a female dog during      mating season. For some reason, one look from my gay friends and Poof! &ndash; it      has been determined. So no matter what, if he seems very much into you,      heed your gay friends&rsquo; warning.</li>
<li>Yes, gay man can have sex      with women, they can even be exceptionally good at it, but it won&rsquo;t last      long. Maybe they can&rsquo;t just fathom the thought.</li>
<li>He is exceptionally      good-looking &ndash; I thought I bagged it this time and hit the jackpot by      having an overly cute boyfriend, but lo and behold, there is a reason why      he is this sexy &ndash; to attract men as pretty as he is. But hey, I&rsquo;m not      saying every cute guy is gay. Though there seems to be a very thin line.</li>
</ol>
<p>So what became of my ex-shoulder to cry on boyfriend who turned out to be gay? Last time I heard, his roommate decided to live with his girlfriend and he was all alone. He got into photography and set up a photoblog detailing all his travels and dreams.</p>
<p>Sometimes I think there must be a cosmic reason why we got together albeit a short period of time. Maybe I am just lonely. Maybe I am destined to end his virginity. Maybe I am there to help him discover his true self. Yeah, I&rsquo;m charitable like that.</p>
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		<title>Another Book Review!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 01:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A book review on a test of faith by Erin Miller.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a book review on a test of faith. This is another book our very own Triond writer Erin Miller has wrote. She also has many other books out as well. So go take a look at them and order some from her.</p>
<p>In the book a test of faith it is about a lesbian couple who split up. One of the women was assaulted because of her sexuality. It shows how some people can be mean towards homosexuals. It shows what some people that are homosexual deal with living in a closed minded world.</p>
<p>It shows how when some people seek help because they need it they are often turned away for some reason or another. It shows how hard it is to seek needed help from professional such a a psychiatrist etc. It shows how messed up the legal system is.</p>
<p>In the book a test of faith it shows how messed up Christian people can be. It also shows how people do things in the name of their god which isn&#8217;t right. Such as rape people who are lesbians and assault them because it is what god wants.</p>
<p>In this book though it also shows how real Christians are. How people who believe in god and are really right with him will do whats right to help others.</p>
<p>I liked this book. I think that it was a nice story about how people really can be in different scenarios and how messed up this world it. I also like that it shows how messed up cops can be.</p>
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		<title>The Academy: One</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:03:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The academy.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>- Do you think mom recognized me? stammered at last.</p>
<p> &#8211; Oh! that, for sure. She screamed &#8230; So it&#8217;s my fault. He did not want to be. I forced &#8230; Listen, Zizi, will you write to your mom? She looks very respectable. I tell him that I had never seen that Steiner brought you today for the first time.</p>
<p> &#8211; No, no, do not write, &#8217;said George very anxious. I will arrange it myself &#8230; And if you miss, I is not coming.</p>
<p> But he remained absorbed, looking for lies to the evening. The five cars were rolling on the plain, on an endless straight road lined with beautiful trees. The air, a silver-gray, bathing the countryside. The ladies continued to shout phrases, a car in the other, behind the backs of drivers, who laughed at this strange world at times, one of them stood up to see, and persisted , supported on the shoulders of a neighbor, as a shock does not reject the bench. Caroline Hequet, however, was in conversation with Labordette and both were agreed that Nana would sell its campaign for three months, and Caroline Labordette charged him buy it covertly, for four cents. Before them, the Faloise, very much in love, not up to the neck apoplectic Gaga, kissed the corner of the spine, on her dress, which cracked the fabric taut, while,</p>
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		<title>Coming to Terms with Situations That Cannot be Altered</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How situations can affect people in different ways.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sick to death of having to listen&nbsp;to the lectures, conjectures and judgements from other people about the rights or wrongs of whether a person is gay by choice or gay by birth defect or just an accident&nbsp;- if these&nbsp;are correct terms to use or not &#8211; are points given to this argument or discussion&nbsp;in question.&nbsp; I ask readers to read my views and accept that some of the terminology I may use is NOT meant to demean gay people but merely to show or express the point I am getting at in easy to understand language.</p>
<p>I discuss this NOT solely as a gay issue but as an issue to each and every adult &#8211; particularly parents who either cannot handle the fact that any of their children may be gay, simply refuse to admit it or face it.&nbsp;</p>
<p>To use an old cliche &#8216;I have been there, done that and worn the tee shirt&#8217;.&nbsp; I am now an unmarried man&nbsp;(having been married twice before with no children&nbsp;- divorced from my first wife and widowed from my second wife).&nbsp; Being on the gay scene for a while in my earlier years&nbsp;- which I hated because of the bitching, jealously and general nastiness that gay people at times adopted &#8211; which may well be a survival package because of their past bitter&nbsp;experiences -&nbsp;has also given me a somewhat qualified and hopefully now that I am settled down now more than I have been for years&nbsp;I would like to give an&nbsp;unbiassed viewpoint&nbsp;and nevertheless now that I am 67 years old and&nbsp;I am&nbsp;interested in writing about the different experiences I have had with different subjects.</p>
<p>I have to say that NOT all gay men are hip swaggering, limp wristed, outrageous in their dress or speech or otherwise as&nbsp;camp as a Christmas cake at Easter.&nbsp;&nbsp; What is MOST annoying especially&nbsp;is that a lot of people put gay people down (men&nbsp;especially) &nbsp;as child molesters when this is simply an evil form of malevolent form&nbsp;of wrongful and ignorant&nbsp;typecasting.&nbsp; More gay people do NOT display their sexuality in any form of imaginary&nbsp;typecasting image&nbsp;at all.&nbsp; Whilst in a way I admired Quentin Crisp for standing up for his beliefs of sexual freedom I have to concur that his outrageous mode of dressing did as far as I am concerned quite easily have done more damage than good to himself at that particular time but these days is in no way necessary.&nbsp; It is only&nbsp;<em>after </em>the traumatic efforts to make himself accepted at the time that modern day&nbsp;attitudes have been more liberal.&nbsp; As I have said on a previous occasion gay people just have to accept that in order to be accepted by others they they themselves <em>MUST</em> make themselves acceptable to others in the first place and that is only done by respecting their views also.</p>
<p>My own belief as a Christian Spiritist is that of an individuals predestination&nbsp;by the time of birth by the supreme creative force &#8211; whatever name we choose to give it &#8211; &nbsp;and that we all have patterns that we are destined to follow.&nbsp; It is a way of showing other people &#8211; who care to study any particular individual, their actions, make up, personality or individuality etc&nbsp; as to why they react in ways that they do.&nbsp; Basically we are all here to teach one and other the lessons of tolerance, acceptance&nbsp;and understanding. It does indeed take all types to make a world&nbsp;</p>
<p>Bullying parents who have felt that their children has &#8216;let them down&#8217; for whatever reason &#8211; and there are many reasons that&nbsp;I have heard of.&nbsp; Because of&nbsp; children&#8217;s sexuality does NOT mark&nbsp;parental failure as parents and parental aggression does not help achieve anything other than sheer resentment by the children who are gay.&nbsp; Trying to study what and why&nbsp;has caused the situation may well&nbsp;help the&nbsp;parents concerned to understand the problem (if you can call it a problem), condition&nbsp;or&nbsp;situation.</p>
<p>Luckily enough today most of&nbsp;the parents I have spoken to about such subject in this last thirty years or so have been aware of the fact that the way of life their children have turned to &#8211; whether gay or straight (the term I will use to demonstrate hetrosexual&nbsp;(male only wanting female partners &#8211; or visa versa) sexuality &#8211; still,in the main&nbsp;accept and love their children&nbsp;irrespecive of&nbsp;their sexual activity&nbsp;- or what they are no matter.&nbsp; Unfortunately not&nbsp;all of us have been so lucky.</p>
<p>I&nbsp;strongly feel that anyone at all in this day and&nbsp;age who&nbsp;castigate gay people because of their sexuality have for reasons best known to them got resentments (hang-ups) about their own lives somewhere along the line and I am NOT going to delve into psychological&nbsp;reasons for this at this point.&nbsp; One of the key necessities in this day and age is TOLERANCE to other people&#8217;s way of life led&nbsp;legally (by consenting adults of legal age only)&nbsp;- which sadly is not always indicative by strong religious followers who tend to quote only rel event parts of the Bible to suit their own arguments or in many cases their inhibitions.&nbsp; You just cannot get anyone more homophobic these days than our churches or certain police force&nbsp;members who are against gay people in he first place.&nbsp; For whatever verse or chapter in the Bible is given against homosexuality one will never ever argue against is one of the greatest quotations given of &#8216;Judge not lest ye be judged&#8217; and judging is just what&nbsp;certain police forces and most (if not all) of the churches in this land in fact do.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;HOW HYPERCRITICAL CAN ONE GET?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;PLEASE THINK ABOUT IT&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Many gay people struggle very badly with coming to terms with their sexuality, some succeed but many others commit suicide because of the sheer bullying or indoctrination they all get concerning this issue from family and churches.&nbsp; Nobody (unless gay people&nbsp;such as myself)&nbsp;will ever know about&nbsp;the inner struggles individuals have especially when they are faced with the&nbsp;inevitability of&nbsp;after having to come&nbsp;to terms with their sexuality that had at first with&nbsp;themselves then&nbsp;having to tell their close family and friends&nbsp;without that constant fear of retribution,&nbsp; hate, aggression or general disdain that other&nbsp;people show &#8211; and unfortunately although the majority of people accept that there are gay people and that gay people will exist on this earth until its&#8217; end -&nbsp;there&nbsp;are still those with archaic and dangerous&nbsp;attitudes of none acceptance that we&nbsp;can all well do without.&nbsp; The time has surely come when all this nonsense of homophobia&nbsp;is stopped as it it an attitude that will not solve, help or overcome sexuality that some people may feel in their naive ignorance&nbsp;is abnormal.&nbsp; Some gay people have a great deal to offer the world today as indeed many top successful people in all walks of life are in fact themselves gay.&nbsp; This then leads onto the million dollar question &#8216;What is in fact normal?&#8217; but that again is perhaps another leading discussion for another time.</p>
<p>Views and opinions to me directly&nbsp;are &#8211; as usual are more than&nbsp;welcome on this or on any other subject I have written about.&nbsp; Please send them to me on my e-mail facility -&nbsp;marking the subject line &#8216;Article on Triond&#8217; and my e-mail address is <a href="mailto:lamedlamed@yahoo.co.uk" target="_blank">lamedlamed@yahoo.co.uk</a>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Lupe Fiasco (In My Opinion) The Greatest Rapper Alive</title>
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<p>There are so many rappers around the world and each of them have their own uniqueness. However, in my opinion, Lupe is the best rapper alive. Why? here is my reason:</p>
<p>1. He has a Godly Flow. every word he spit is like water, it flows smoothly and beautifully. If you say eminem or jay z has flow, then Lupe is fluid!</p>
<p>2. He deliver positive messages. Unlike other rappers on the game, lupe never speak negatively or brag things that he has. He always speak about the truth to encourage people.</p>
<p>3. Lupe always think about the people. In my opinion, even though Lasers album is his biggest hit on the market, the album is the worst, and Lupe admit it. He always think about his fans, not his wealth or popularity.</p>
<p>4. Lupe never mock a woman. there is a lyric in hurt me soul said that &#8220;i used to hate hip hop, yep! because the woman degraded&#8221; is there any other rapper out there who value woman like he does?</p>
<p>here are some songs that i think the best of him:</p>
<p>1. Conflict Diamonds</p>
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<p>2. Hurt Me Soul</p>
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<p>3. Mean and Vicious</p>
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<p>4. Switch</p>
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<p>5. Handcuff</p>
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