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		<title>Evenness in Education</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 11:30:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Promoting equality in education.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>A few decades ago the society did not see the need of educating the girl child. This is because she was expected to be come a mother someday which in itself is a very demanding task owing to the fact that she has to take care of the children and also run a few errands on behalf of her husband. In fact most families did not send their daughters to school because they felt that it was not necessary. This suggests that education was reserved for boys. As a matter of fact in the US women started working during the civil war because their men had been deployed to the battle fields.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; There were many challenges that were facing the girl child with regard to education. First of all most girls could not go through the education system because some would get pregnant which left them with no alternative but to quit school. In addition to that some girls would be married off at an early age especially in developing countries. Girls were therefore perceived to be weak while its their male counterparts who were responsible for their suffering. This is because the boys who impregnated them were allowed to continue learning. Besides that most communities don&rsquo;t send their daughters to school because they assume a vacuum will be created in their households.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Women were more enlightened towards the end of 19th century by the many non governmental organizations that had been established to fight for the rights of the girl child. On the other hand the education of the boy child has been ignored since everyone is concentrating on the girl child. In general there is a gap that needs to filled and this can only be achieved by giving both sexes equal opportunities. The opportunities of women are reserved as opposed to those of men. Most organizations are reserving a good number of their job openings for women and thus men continue to suffer in silence because they are not supposed to show any signs of weakness.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Statistics from US learning institutions indicate that the rate of female enrollment is much higher than that of men. From early days boys have been made to believe that they don&rsquo;t have to work hard or even go to school because they are their parent&rsquo;s heirs. The aggressiveness of the girl child has made her to pursue further education because that&rsquo;s the surest way of liberating herself. Additionally the global population of men is much lower than that of women considering that they are the ones who are affected by child mortality.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The cost of sending a child to school is still high especially during these difficult economic times. In most developing countries there are numerous non governmental organizations whose main objective is to empower women. This is done by issuing monetary handouts to the girls&rsquo; parents. There is no one who is concerned about the welfare of the boy child. This is unfair competition because the ground should be leveled for both sexes. The boy child is facing the same challenges that are being faced by the girl child. For instance in early days its only women who suffered from sexual abuse but nowadays the boy child is being faced by the same challenge. The role of men in the society has changed from being the providers to caregivers. This have been brought about by depreciation of our values.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Gone are the days when women used to depend on men for their upkeep. This change of culture has been brought about by economic factors. In today&rsquo;s world a man&rsquo;s salary is not enough to support a family and that&rsquo;s why the two sexes need to be empowered equally. The solution to gender inequality should start right from the school. In most schools there are more male teachers than female teachers and thus the female learners are not well represented. Furthermore the female teachers concentrate more on the boys.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; There are a few approaches that can be employed to achieve gender equality in education. The learning curriculums should be revised to favor both sexes. Currently there is a general perception that engineering and technical courses are not meant for girls. Comprehensive review of these courses will result in a balanced enrollment rate. There will be no courses that are reserved for any sex as long as one has the skills and the ability to deliver the desired results.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; More female educators should be brought on board. They will act as role models for the girls who have for a long time been demoralized. The balance should be realized right from the time teachers are being recruited into the training colleges. This will ensure that the same balance is observed when the same educators are being deployed to their respective learning centers. The school infrastructures of most learning centers are in a sorry state such that both sexes are not content. For instance if the toilets don&rsquo;t have doors the girls would not feel comfortable while using them owing to their gender orientation. This suggests that more funding should be designated for improving the infrastructure of such centers.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Support programs should be offered to both sexes so that the boys are not under pressure to quit school. This means that there should be a gender balance in bursary allocations. Additionally the teams that are in charge of education systems should be comprised of both men and women. This will make it possible for every group to safeguard its interests. Civil society groups should also be called upon to help in eliminating cultural issues.</p></p>
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		<title>Beware of Prostate Cancer Symptoms</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 05:24:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Prostate cancer is a malignant tumor that grows in the prostate gland. Prostate cancer is very common. Microscopic examination of prostate tissue after surgery or at autopsy showed cancer in 50% of men aged over 70 years and in all men aged over 90 years. Most cancers do not cause symptoms because the spread is very slow.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DEFINITION<br />Prostate cancer is a malignant tumor that grows in the prostate gland.&nbsp;Prostate cancer is very common.&nbsp;Microscopic examination of prostate tissue after surgery or at autopsy showed cancer in 50% of men aged over 70 years and in all men aged over 90 years.&nbsp;Most cancers do not cause symptoms because the spread is very slow.</p>
<p>CAUSE<br />The cause is unknown, although several studies have shown an association between high-fat diet and increased levels of testosterone.&nbsp;Prostate cancer is the leading cause of cancer deaths in men and no 3 is the leading cause of cancer in men kematin over 74 years.&nbsp;Prostate cancer is rarely found in men younger than 40 years.</p>
<p>Men who are at higher risk for prostate cancer is a black man aged over 60 years, farmer, painter and cadmium exposure.&nbsp;The lowest incidence was found in Japanese men and vegetarians.</p>
<p>Prostate cancers are grouped into:</p>
<p>* Stage A: lump / tumor not palpable on physical examination, usually discovered by accident after prostate surgery because of other diseases.<br />* Stage B: tumor confined to the prostate and is usually found on physical examination or PSA test.<br />* Stage C: tumor has spread beyond the prostate capsule, but not yet spread to the lymph nodes.<br />* Stage D: cancer has spread (metastasis) to the regional lymph nodes or other body parts (eg bones and lungs).</p>
<p>SYMPTOMS<br />Prostate cancer usually develops slowly and causes no symptoms until the cancer has reached an advanced stage.&nbsp;Sometimes the symptoms resemble BPH, which include difficulty in urination and frequent urination.&nbsp;These symptoms occur because the cancer causing partial blockage of the flow of urine through the urethra.</p>
<p>Prostate cancer can cause red urine (because it contains blood) or urine caused the sudden arrest.&nbsp;In some cases, newly diagnosed prostate cancer after spread to the bones (particularly the pelvic bones, ribs and spine) or to the kidneys (causing kidney failure).&nbsp;Painful bone cancer and brittle bones that easily fracture (broken bone).</p>
<p>When cancer spreads, the patient will usually have anemia.&nbsp;Prostate cancer can also spread to the brain and cause seizures and other neurological symptoms or mental.</p>
<p>Other symptoms are:</p>
<p>* Immediately after urination, the urine is usually still dripping<br />* Pain when urinating<br />* Pain when ejaculating<br />* Lower back pain<br />* Pain when defecating<br />* Nocturia (urination at night)<br />* Incontinence uri (beser)<br />* Bone pain or bone pain when pressed<br />* Hematuria (blood in urine)<br />* Abdominal pain<br />* Weight loss.</p>
<p>Diagnosis<br />The best way to screen for prostate cancer are digital rectal examination and blood tests.&nbsp;Digital rectal prostate cancer patients would indicate a hard lump of irregular shape.&nbsp;Blood tests performed on the measured levels of prostate specific antigen (PSA), which is usually elevated in patients with prostate cancer, but also may increase (not too high) in patients with BPH.</p>
<p>If the digital rectal examination found a lump, then performed an ultrasound examination.&nbsp;Skening with X-rays or bone, can be known of the spread of cancer to bone.</p>
<p>Other tests are performed:</p>
<p>* Analysis of the urine<br />* Cytology of urine or prostatic fluid<br />* A biopsy of the prostate.</p>
<p>TREATMENT<br />Appropriate treatment for prostate cancer is still debated.&nbsp;Treatment options vary, depending on the stage:</p>
<p>* In the early stages can be used prostatectomy (prostate removal) and radiation therapy<br />* If the cancer has spread, hormonal manipulation can be done (to reduce testosterone levels through medication or removal of the testes) or chemotherapy.</p>
<p>Surgery</p>
<p>A.&nbsp;Radical prostatectomy (removal of the prostate gland).<br />Often done in cancer stage A and B.<br />The procedure is long and is usually performed under general anesthesia or spinal.<br />An incision is made in the abdomen or perineal area and the patient had to undergo hospital treatment for 5-7 harai.<br />Possible complications and incontinence are impotensia uri.<br />In patients who are still active sexual life, can be done Potency-sparing radical prostatectomy.</p>
<p>2.&nbsp;Orkiektomi (removal of the testes, castration).&nbsp;Removal of both testicles leads to reduced levels of testosterone, but the procedure is the physical and psychological effects that can not be tolerated by the patient.<br />Orkiektomi is an effective treatment, does not require re-treatment, compared to cheaper drugs and after undergoing orkiektomi patients do not need hospital treatment.<br />Orkiektomi usually done on the cancer has spread.</p>
<p>Radiation Therapy</p>
<p>Radiation therapy is mainly used to treat cancer A, B and C.<br />Usually if the risk of surgery is too high, then do radiation therapy.&nbsp;Radiation therapy to the prostate gland can be done in several ways:</p>
<p>A.&nbsp;External radiation therapy, performed in a hospital without needing to be hospitalized.<br />Side effects such as decreased appetite, fatigue, skin reactions (such as redness and irritation), injury or burns to the rectum, diarrhea, cystitis (bladder infection) and hematuria.<br />External radiation therapy is usually performed 5 times / week for 6-8 weeks.</p>
<p>2.&nbsp;Transplant iodine beads, gold or radioactive iridium directly in the prostate tissue through small incisions.<br />The advantage of this form of radiation therapy is that radiation is directed to the prostate with tissue damage around a little more.</p>
<p>Drugs</p>
<p>A.&nbsp;Hormonal manipulation.<br />The goal is to reduce testosterone levels.&nbsp;Decrease in testosterone levels are often very effective in preventing the growth and spread of cancer.&nbsp;Hormonal manipulation is mainly used to alleviate symptoms without curing the cancer, ie for example in patients whose cancer has spread.</p>
<p>Synthetic drugs whose function resembles LHRH (luteinizing hormone releasing hormone), is increasingly being used to treat advanced prostate cancer.&nbsp;An example is Lupron or zoladeks.&nbsp;These drugs suppress the testes to the formation of testosterone (this is called chemical castration because it has the same result with the removal of the testes).&nbsp;Drugs administered in the form of injections, usually every 3 months.&nbsp;The side effects are nausea and vomiting, facial flushing, anemia, osteoporosis, and impotence.</p>
<p>Other drugs used for hormonal therapy is androgen inhibitors (eg flutamid), which serves to prevent the attachment of testosterone on prostate cells.&nbsp;Side effects include impotence, liver problems, diarrhea, and gynecomastia (breast enlargement).</p>
<p>2.&nbsp;Chemotherapy<br />Chemotherapy is often used to treat symptoms of prostate cancer is resistant to hormonal treatment.&nbsp;Usually given a single drug or combination of drugs to destroy cancer cells.</p>
<p>Drugs that can be used to treat prostate cancer are:<br />- Mitoxantronx<br />- Prednisone<br />- Paclitaxel<br />- Dosetaxel<br />- Estramustin<br />- Adriamycin.<br />The side effects vary and depend on the drugs administered.</p>
<p>Monitoring</p>
<p>Whatever type of treatment he underwent, the patient will be monitored closely on the development of the disease.<br />Monitoring include:</p>
<p>* Blood tests to determine levels of PSA (usually every 3 months &#8211; 1 year).<br />* Skening and / or CT scan to determine the spread of bone cancer.<br />* Complete blood tests to monitor the signs and symptoms of anemia.<br />* Monitoring signs and symptoms that indicate progression of disease (such as fatigue, weight loss, more severe pain, decreased bowel and bladder function, and weakness).</p>
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		<title>Anger Management Classes Could be Part of School&#8217;s Programs</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 01:57:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All over the civilized world, the vast majority of violent acts that are committed occur inside our schools. From verbal assaults, to full-blown fistfights, and group rumbles, violence has been no stranger to schools from New York to L.A. and everywhere in between.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All over the civilized world, the vast majority of violent acts that are  committed occur inside our schools. From verbal assaults, to full-blown  fistfights, and group rumbles, violence has been no stranger to schools  from <a href="http://www.angerclassonline.com/New-York-Anger-Management.aspx" target="_blank">New York</a> to L.A. and everywhere in between.</p>
<p>One  of the best ways to stop these types of problems is to implement a  means of prevention. One question that has been raised is, should anger  management classes be mandatory in high schools?&nbsp; </p>
<p>Our children  grow up in a new age of mass media and social networking, where there  are more opportunities than ever for violence to occur. More than once,  there has been a violent outcome to social networking. Something that  was said online can easily carry over into school, especially high  school. When considering the idea of mandatory anger management in high  schools to control violence, the pros and cons must be examined.</p>
<p>The Pros:<br />Emotions  such as anger and frustration can be strong and confusing in our  growing kids. By requiring all high school students to take anger  management classes, students will have a wider understanding of their  own emotions. They&rsquo;ll learn new methods to deal with those strong and  still forming emotions. It could improve the maturity level and thought  processes a high school student before acting up in class, insulting  another student, or even a teacher. </p>
<p>Another bonus to requiring  anger management classes for high school students is that they don&#8217;t  have to be taken in school. There are many different online anger  management classes that come with an official certificate of completion.  That&rsquo;s the proof that would be needed to know the student didn&#8217;t fake  attending the class. </p>
<p>The Cons<br />Since a safe, private, and easy  to access online option is possible, the down sides are restricted to  affordability. For the school districts to cover the entire bill of  these classes could cost US schools billions, in total.</p>
<p>Large  classes filled with teenage students may end up a lot like Health  Education classes during Sex Ed. It may be smeared in peer pressure, not  allowing the unconfident teens to learn. That&#8217;s why the idea of online  anger management classes can be a great idea.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not a foreign  idea to charge for a class. If it were a parent&rsquo;s requirement to get  their children this type of education, with waivers and such when  needed, then the education could be had by nearly everyone. The cost for  a basic anger management education is as little as $195 for a full <a href="http://www.angerclassonline.com/8-Hour-Online-Anger-Management-Class.aspx" target="_blank">8 hour anger course</a>, and the certificate of completion can even stand up in court, if ever needed. </p>
<p>Which is Right<br />The  tools that teens will learn to control their anger could save their own  academic careers and save someone else from being a victim of a violent  act. It may also be effective at cutting teen gang activity. </p>
<p>The  only obstacle is the pricing. Other than that, nearly every school  district in the US would have lower violent incidents regarding  students. How long will it take our school districts to consider a  simple question: Should <a href="http://www.angerclassonline.com/info/Court-Ordered-Anger-Management-Classes-Online.aspx" target="_blank">anger management classes</a> be mandatory in high schools.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even though it became lovers or husband and wife, not all men uncomfortablerevealing much. Evidently, there are a few things hidden from her. What are they?

The attitude of the man who &#34;cool&#34; sometimes led to the mysterious in men. And, behind these mysterious side, not infrequently he was hiding some things from her.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>1. Men&nbsp;want&nbsp;women&nbsp;to hang out with&nbsp;her ​​friends</strong>&nbsp;</p>
<p>For men,&nbsp;they&nbsp;want a partner who&nbsp;not only&nbsp;loves&nbsp;himself&nbsp;alone,&nbsp;but&nbsp;also&nbsp;hanging out with&nbsp;friends.&nbsp;They&nbsp;might&nbsp;not&nbsp;get along&nbsp;all the time&nbsp;but at least&nbsp;when&nbsp;there is&nbsp;a chance, women&nbsp;can&nbsp;use&nbsp;that time to&nbsp;socialize with&nbsp;friends.</p>
<p><strong>2.&nbsp;Men do not like&nbsp;when&nbsp;she&nbsp;&#8221;adores&#8221;&nbsp;the other&nbsp;guy<br /></strong><br />Whether it&#8217;s&nbsp;a&nbsp;famous&nbsp;artist&nbsp;who&nbsp;became&nbsp;an idol&nbsp;even&nbsp;atapun&nbsp;other&nbsp;figure,&nbsp;he&nbsp;reallydid not like&nbsp;when&nbsp;other men&nbsp;adored&nbsp;her partner.</p>
<p><strong>3.&nbsp;Men&nbsp;worry&nbsp;if&nbsp;their partner&nbsp;finds a&nbsp;better than him<br /></strong><br />Concerns&nbsp;a man&nbsp;on&nbsp;her partner&nbsp;if&nbsp;she&nbsp;would&nbsp;find&nbsp;a better&nbsp;figure&nbsp;it&nbsp;is often&nbsp;haunting.This often&nbsp;makes&nbsp;him&nbsp;very uncomfortable.&nbsp;However,&nbsp;he&nbsp;was always&nbsp;good at hidinghis concern&nbsp;is&nbsp;when&nbsp;in the presence of&nbsp;men.</p>
<p><strong>4.&nbsp;Men love&nbsp;a hug</strong></p>
<p>Especially&nbsp;when the&nbsp;agenda of&nbsp;the ongoing&nbsp;sex,&nbsp;men want&nbsp;you&nbsp;to&nbsp;hug him&nbsp;and&nbsp;notjust&nbsp;holding hands&nbsp;or&nbsp;touching&nbsp;his arm.</p>
<p><strong>5.&nbsp;Do not&nbsp;tell me what happened&nbsp;tonight&nbsp;against&nbsp;another man<br /></strong><br />Men&nbsp;really&nbsp;do not like&nbsp;when&nbsp;women talk about&nbsp;what he does&nbsp;along with&nbsp;her ​​partner&nbsp;to others.&nbsp;Whether&nbsp;they are just&nbsp;sports&nbsp;activities,&nbsp;play bike,&nbsp;by car,&nbsp;and&nbsp;so forth.&nbsp;In essence,&nbsp;he&nbsp;is&nbsp;not&nbsp;interested in&nbsp;it.&nbsp;buy.</p>
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		<title>Watch Online K-drama City Hunter Episode 18</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 16:20:52 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Jin-pyo gets ambushed at home by eight of Chun&rsquo;s minions, a variety too huge to deal with single-handedly even for a man of his badassery.</p>
<p>As girlfriday mentioned, there can be something so curiously sad about seeing Jin-pyo broken to the earth, struggling for his stick, and having it quit out of his side. He&rsquo;s Bad Daddy! He&rsquo;s the all-knowing, ten-steps-ahead-of-everybody mastermind! It&rsquo;s dissonant and unusual, like arriving to when in your maturity when you recognize your mother and father are just individuals, mistaken and fallible.</p>
<p>Yoon-sung easily battles his way to Papa&#8217;s area, and the men take a position back-to-back as the company encircles them. (Ack! It&rsquo;s a present that eliminates me, every individual time &mdash; so outstanding, so us-versus-the-world.) Dad growls, &ldquo;Why did you come?&rdquo; Yoon-sung details out, &ldquo;This is not plenty of a chance to say that.&rdquo;</p>
<p>McCreepy requires on the planet and deduces, &ldquo;So you were the Town Seeker.&rdquo;</p>
<p>What arises is a knock-down drag-out deal with between the ten men, with Group Town Seeker positioning their own, but just hardly. A minion requires carry of Jin-pyo&rsquo;s sword-cane &mdash; just a edge now &mdash; and comes at him with it, and Jin-pyo actually prevents the edge between the websites of a publication. Gives new significance to the saying, The pen is more incredible than the edge.</p>
<p>He drops floor, though, and is in certain risk of getting an eye poked out when Yoon-sung events to Papa&#8217;s aid. The edge looks off Papa&#8217;s arm rather than his experience, and now McCreepy cellphone calls in his young children for a quick escape.</p>
<p>McCreepy tries to get in touch with McBossy with his information about the Town Hunter&rsquo;s real identification, but Chun Jae-man is linked up currently with his economical issues, so the decision does not get through. Chun is seriously trying to persuade the lender that Haewon is still going despite the quantity Jin-pyo drawn, but learns to his impact that they are at a 500% economical debt rate. Meaning, they owe waaaaay more than they are value.</p>
<p>At perform, a very puzzled Eun-ah and Ki-joon challenge over Yoon-sung&rsquo;s instantaneously expertise of modern martial arts. Nana tries to protect for him, saying he&rsquo;s actually a quick student, and he had an excellent teacher&hellip; which unfortunately insults Eun-ah, who pouts, &ldquo;Then am I lacking, that my student is how he is?&rdquo; with a indicated look at Ki-joon.</p>
<p>That creates Ki-joon hurriedly recommend that perhaps Yoon-sung took his days off to join some battling sessions, and grumbles about Yoon-sung&rsquo;s &ldquo;lack of loyalty&rdquo; for not getting him along. Hee!</p>
<p>The purpose I really like these Pink House moments is because there can be always about a half-dozen interactions taking place within one discussion, and it&rsquo;s entertaining. Nana&rsquo;s masking up for Yoon-sung&rsquo;s key identification, Eun-ah&rsquo;s getting this as an affront to her satisfaction and reliability, and Ki-joon is trying to sleek over her beautiful down while also excusing his own inadequate abilities.</p>
<p>Nana goes home stressing about Yoon-sung and is assaulted by McCreepy, who has been relaxing in delay for her.</p></p>
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		<title>Story : Three Allies of Satan (4-6)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 14:34:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Three Allies of Satan.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But what about to say: it was not just venting Shekkem breath. But he fell in love. Dina to his words he gave an entertaining and sincere. Shekkem to his own father said: &#8220;I want to make this woman my wife.&#8221;</p>
<p>So Hamor came to parents Dina, Yakoov. He proposed. &#8220;Let&#8217;s form of marital communion hosts: host given the host&#8217;s daughter, and we gave our son, and we solve our problems.&#8221;<br /> But peace did not happen and the issue is not resolved. Yakoov sons still feel angry that Shekkem had overpowered their sister. This is their answer to Yakoov: &#8220;We can not give our sister to a people who have not been circumcised.&#8221;<br /> And they also give the terms, and with a sense that they regulate. Hamor and Shekkam application will be accepted if all men in the country was cut off the foreskin of penis-as required for the Jewish people.<br /> Terms were accepted by Hamor and his son are happy. So soon all men in the land ruled Hamor was circumcised. But on the third day, when the men were still a pain to put up at the end of their genitals, two sons Yakoov preparing something unexpected. With swords drawn, they entered the city. They meet every man&#8217;s town was in a state of helpless. They kill. Then not long after Jacob&#8217;s sons stormed the other. They plundered the city. Sheep, ox, ass everything in the house, as well as children and his wife, were seized.</p>
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		<title>Novel Synopsis : Musafir Love (1-10)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 13:53:19 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Continuing novel in the trilogy makrifat creed love love taufiqurrahman al-azizy work, iqbal was going to leave boarding tegal jadin. But he was confused where to go. It is impossible if he had to return to jakarta. And then by saying basmalah, he walked away into a traveler &#8230;</p>
<p>He was soon up majoring in solo-navan bus. However, he still did not know where it was. Inside the bus, he saw a veiled woman. And a young man sat down next to him. Soon the young men and women began to get acquainted. Iqbal was listening to them because it&#8217;s very close distance. And unexpectedly, they were closer, even the woman was leaning her head to his youth, when she was veiled. They were holding each other and more intimate. Wah-wah ya bener not already started <br /> iqbal was reminded of a verse from the quran, which reads:</p>
<p> &#8220;the women are for vile men are cruel, and vile men are for vile women (too), and good women are for good men and good men is for women who either (too). They (the accused) was clean from what is alleged by them (the accused&#8217;s). For them forgiveness and a generous sustenance (heaven). Qs. An-nur: 26.</p>
<p>He also thought of aisha. He thought of his friends that the accusation he had berkhalawat with aisha, charges that are part of the judge proof that he had to leave tegal jadin. If they are there, eager to iqbal told them all: this is true-it jatinya seclusion. Here&#8217;s seclusion. Are two human men and women who berasik-masyuk like these two men. This is the meaning of &#8220;two by a pair of forbidden&#8221; it. Iqbal was crying.</p>
<p>Iqbal also met a young man named anton. They end up discussing islam. Anton turned out religion is love religion. Wah-macem macem ajah ya .. But at the end of the discussion, iqbal triumphantly.</p>
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		<title>After a Break Up!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:03:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A father has feelings too.the effects on a father and his child after a break up.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After a break up things can become bitter for all parties&nbsp; involved.this included grandparents and other siblings.My experience on the subject is not a particularly pleasant one.I firmly believe that a fathers rights are severely undermined in general and through the courts system.When you dissolve a relationship you do not choose to cut ties with the child.Sometimes it is better for all involved as the constant bad atmosphere and fighting can do worse damage from a child&#8217;s point of view.For me having a child was the best feeling in the world.Nothing really can be better than holding your child for the first time.A little bundle of joy putting his faith in you to look after him.Care and love him.This bond is now for life.</p>
<p>&nbsp;But things can and do go wrong.My child was four when the time came to leave the family home.The hardest thing i had ever done.Trying to adjust to a life alone and finding a new place to live on top of the thought that i wouldn&#8217;t be around twenty four seven for my son.I dont think i realised how hard this would be and it never got much better after ten years had passed.</p>
<p>&nbsp;At first things were fairly amicably.I got my three days a week access without lawyers getting involved.This was ok but i missed him like hell.I took regular trips to his school at dinner times and play times.Watched him in the yard as he played with his little friends but on some occasions he stood alone looking lost.All i really wanted to was to jump the fence and hug him and reassure him.But i knew that wouldn&#8217;t really help him in mixing with the other children.</p>
<p>&nbsp;After a little while the excuses not to pick him up on my given days became regular.So the dreaded moment came to converse through a lawyer.The feedback that came through this was one of lack of confidence through the very person who was there to fight my corner.This was to be a familiar feeling.The law on fathers rights infuriated me.A total lack of feeling and compassion for our feelings.Is it so hard to comprehend that a father can love in the same way a mother can?can a man sometimes be a better father than a mother.I&nbsp; believe so though of course we all know of men who let there child down or completely leave there like for good.I am not one of those men so why shouldn&#8217;t i want more from this dated system.</p>
<p>&nbsp;I have been lucky enough to have a level headed child who has always maintained a close bond with me even under the worst circumstances.Nobody really knows apart from us the hurt each time he had to go back to his home.The times we had to say goodbye when his holidays came around.A full week without my world.The tears as i looked up to his window seeing him crying.I swear its like a knife through your heart.Driving away barely able to see the road ahead.If any fathers out there are in this situation its not easy but if you do everything right careful not to let your child down to often and really just love him.You will be able to have that bond forever.What really annoys me is the fact some mothers play god with your child life.Not realising that it is them who are causing lasting damage to that child.For instance i lived across the road from my son at one point and after inviting him over for a few sweets he told me he wasn&#8217;t allowed over.I seen him on the other side of the street with his mother he didn&#8217;t dare acknowledge me and continued to walk on his head down.</p>
<p>Dont give up though fathers it is a long hard road but now my son is nearly sixteen and has is own mind and makes his own choices.He is a great friend to me and a great son who is sensible and helpful.We go to football matches.Plant seeds and have a laugh together.</p>
<p>Here is some information on parental rights.<a href="http://www.dad.info/separation/law-and-rights/fathers-and-children-the-law" target="_blank">http://www.dad.info/separation/law-and-rights/fathers-and-children-the-law</a>.When i attended court for access was a joke.We sat in a little room with our lawyers and a couple of judges.MOTHER WAS ASKED TO GIVE HER OPINION.When it came to my opinion on the issue i was told to be quiet.The law really is an ass.An ass that needs kicking in my opinion.Im just glad it is all over for me but i know they will be many fathers suffering out there somewhere.The fact is women will and do use there child as a weapon.</p>
<p>DONT GIVE UP!</p>
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		<title>Valentine&#8217;s Day Sucks!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2012 23:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love do not depend on days . It is a feeling and should be expressed whenever it arises in someones heart,<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;14 feb is not only the day when you can tell your friends or loved ones that what you feel about them , every day is as much precious as 14 feb .</p>
<p>The reason I hate Valentines day is that it don&#8217;t have any reasonable history ! secondly people think that it is the only day when they can express their feelings .</p>
<p>&nbsp;The best part of living in east is that over here we depend alot on each other and every day , our every action tells each other that we love them the most , we celebrate mothers , fathers , children , teacher , valentines and others days every day which makes our life most colourful.<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;I hate people who have feelings just for one day !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;So it really Sucks!</p>
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		<title>Diseases That Result From Emotional</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2012 23:31:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Opinion that a healthy smile may have been not just an empty statement. In fact, people are happy and love to laugh tend to be healthier.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Opinion that a healthy smile may have been not just an empty statement.&nbsp;In fact, people are happy and love to laugh tend to be healthier.&nbsp;In fact there are many stories about people who survive and escape from the verdict of death due to severe disease (eg cancer) just because he was trying to enjoy life more.&nbsp;This was already supported by various studies and research.</p>
<p>Other facts indicate that the emotion or feeling someone was able to have an impact on physical health disorders.&nbsp;Primarily on emotions that are negative, such as feelings of regret, fear of failure, anger, confusion, and so forth.</p>
<p>If not acted it will accumulate and can lower the immune system, disrupt breathing, increased body temperature, and the resulting depression.&nbsp;If it gets worse, will cause various diseases.</p>
<p>The best way to respond to emotions, especially the emotion of anger, is to remove it or take it out in a good and decent.&nbsp;Good to talk with people who make us upset.&nbsp;Do not get otherwise because it would not solve the problem and it will be expanded.After a quiet and emotions subside, can be followed by a prayer or worship to be more calm yourself.</p>
<p>Here are some of diseases associated with emotion and its cause:</p>
<p>A.&nbsp;Allergy, because the denial of the power and ability.<br />2.&nbsp;Arthritis, because the feeling unloved, rejected and feeling victimized.<br />3.&nbsp;Fever, because that is not capable of feeling anger expressed.<br />4.&nbsp;Kidney, because of disappointment, feelings of failure, shame is pressed.<br />5.&nbsp;Maag, fear, anxiety, feelings of self-satisfied.<br />6.&nbsp;Lung disease, despair, emotional exhaustion, emotional wounds.<br />7.&nbsp;Back pain, the fear of money, to feel burdened.<br />8.&nbsp;Back pain, because the sense of not being loved, need affection.<br />9.&nbsp;Heart, because the sense of loneliness, feeling of worthlessness, fear of failure and anger.<br />10.&nbsp;Cancer, due to pent-up hatred or chronic liver meal.<br />11.&nbsp;Diabetes, as stubborn, unwilling to be blamed.<br />12.&nbsp;Glaucoma, the pressure of the past and unable to forgive.<br />13.&nbsp;Acne, because they do not accept yourself, not like in yourself.<br />14.&nbsp;Aches, because he wanted to be loved and cherished, hugged and shared needs.<br />15.&nbsp;Obesity, for fear, to be protected, hidden anger, do not want to forgive.<br />16.&nbsp;Minus the eyes, for fear of the future.<br />17.&nbsp;Plus eye, unable to forgive the past.</p>
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