Domestic Violence: Get Angry, Getting Out and Stay Out of Domestic Violence
by GETTING OUT of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE has been a problem for it’s victims. If your a victim of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE you need to concentrate on GETTING OUT of that abominable, sinful and disgraceful DOMESTIC VIOLENCE prison of ignorance, mayhem, danger,and threat of death. This article will spur you on to take action.
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Getting out of a domestic violence situation, is not as hard as they say. Once you put the domestic violence situation in the proper perspective, you’ll be out even today.
Before making your escape from the criminal spouse/abuser make sure to get help from a domestic violence counselor or hot-line. Remember you are dealing with a crafty, sneaky, violent, devilish, dangerous person. I don’t care if the criminal/spouse/abuser is the pastor, the politician, the pope, the pauper or the president. A criminal is a criminal no matter their station.
Don’t blame God for the situation, blame yourself for staying, then get angry, get out and stay out of a domestic violence situation. The life you save may be your own and your children’s. Domestic violence is not a joke or situation to be taken lightly. The next sound your children may hear, is the sound of the shovel at the grave site, as the grave yard workers shovel dirt into the pit, where your coffin lays. A criminal/spouse/violent abuser may kill you one day.
If a criminal/spouse/violent abuser can kick you, slap you, burn you, try to strangle you, tie you up, spit at you, punch you, push you, and hit you, what makes you think they won’t try to kill you?
Getting out of a domestic violence situation is your top priority and goal. A domestic violence spouse/criminal is an angry man with no control. Any person who expresses anger by inflicting violence, is out of control and displaying criminal behavior. Woman can be abuser/criminals as well.
Don’t put God in it. Don’t blame God for a domestic violence situation. God directs us not to keep company with angry people. God directs us not to make friendships with angry people. Look at what God says in Proverbs 22, verse 24:
Proverbs 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go.
There it is in a nut shell, God’s advice for getting out of domestic violence , is to get out, and stay out. God’s advice is that you get angry enough to leave criminal/spouse/abusers. God’s advice is that you cut all friendship and communication with angry men. Make no friendships with angry men or women, if you have, break all ties now, and get out. With the getting out, make sure you stay out. Keep yourself and your children out of that abominable, sinful, disgraceful, domestic violence prison of ignorance, mayhem, danger and threat of death.
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Post Commentmartinrojas
On February 23, 2011 at 10:20 am
Outstanding piece of work.
wonder
On February 23, 2011 at 10:23 am
It really pays to get away from savages.
Jenny Heart
On February 23, 2011 at 10:26 am
Exception advice!
Jimmy Shilaho
On February 23, 2011 at 10:40 am
Very good advice. Getting out may not be easy, but very necessary.
DAN MCHARDY
On February 23, 2011 at 11:15 am
I must agree with Shilaho here, as it definitely isn’t easy to get out of!
wizgem8
On February 23, 2011 at 11:16 am
This is a very special article, great advice!
tankermone
On February 23, 2011 at 11:17 am
Good advice, and I pray it saves someone’s life!
MaxBuceo
On February 23, 2011 at 12:08 pm
Great job. I like this post
Dr Robert E McGinnis
On February 23, 2011 at 12:57 pm
Why and how does a person, man or woman make such a choice to have a mate that is violent? Don’t we have a choice who we associate with and who we marry? I quit going with a lady a long time ago because she didn’t believe me when I told her I had to work overtime. I saw the signs of control and possibly abuse of being overly possessive. I feel that choosing a partner should be done very carefully and the pros and cons evaluated outside of the emotional attraction. Who do we blame? rm
I like the article, it opens up a lot of introspection in all of us.
Sophiesvoice
On February 23, 2011 at 1:05 pm
Thank you! I have written about children and domestic violence. I have worked with DV professionally and have experienced it first hand. If the offender is crafty, as many are, the victim does not even realize what is going on until they are entangled in a relationship. Domestic Violence and Abuse offenders are very manipulative.
Minister Marlene
On February 23, 2011 at 1:14 pm
Thanx so much everyone
Minister Marlene
On February 23, 2011 at 1:16 pm
Thank you Dr. Mckinnis, women can be just as controllong and abusive. Thanx for reading.
Minister Marlene
On February 23, 2011 at 1:19 pm
Thank you Dan man and Jimmy,
The propaganda says, it’s not easy to exit. Thats a lie . When a criminal attacks, call the police. Here’s the phone, her’s the domestic violence #, now call and get help with exiting…
That’s my response to any woman in the situation.
Minister Marlene
On February 23, 2011 at 1:22 pm
Thanx martinrojas for your kind comment.
Minister Marlene
On February 23, 2011 at 1:24 pm
Thanx wonder, a savage is a savage, man or woman if they use violence. Amen to that!
The Real Poet
On February 23, 2011 at 1:24 pm
This type of awareness never dulls, thank you so much MM for being that written ‘voice’ for women and sometimes men of domestic atrocities.
Minister Marlene
On February 23, 2011 at 1:28 pm
HI Poet, where have you been, Domestic atrocities indeed. It’s a sin, a shame, and a crime. I pray all get help. Today!
Minister Marlene
On February 23, 2011 at 1:30 pm
wizgem8 and tankermone, thnx for giving your attention and commenting. Raising awareness is important.
Swish3
On February 23, 2011 at 4:46 pm
Nice article and looking for to see more
lapasan
On February 23, 2011 at 6:49 pm
When a situation in the house is no longer tolerable because a spouse is physically abusive, then maybe it’s time to let go. Thanks for the article Marlene.
Karen Gross
On February 24, 2011 at 1:25 am
Very good advice. The doctor’s question about how we get involved in an abusive relationship in the first place is, from my observation, that domestic violence and dysfunctional relationships are passed on from one generation to the next. You see it all the time – some women move from one abusive man to the next, and she doesn’t understand how she keeps getting involved with the wrong men. The cycle goes on until someone lets God help them to get out, and as you said, stay out.
gaby7
On February 24, 2011 at 3:15 am
Domestic violence is a real problem here in my country-the interesting thing is that women who don’t want to get out have started fighting back-infact statistics around Kampala last year alone show that as many as 10 men were killed by their violent wives! This is an entirely new angle to domestic violence because for a long time, only men were the predominant culprits here!Your advise deserves attention! Thanks!
A Bromley
On February 26, 2011 at 3:13 am
I GOT OUT. It was pretty scary for awhile but we made it and God is very good. Great article and I got the sense maybe you have such a clear picture from personal experience. There is NO excuse for abuse, NOT ever. Wonderful share and I hope it gets Many Many reads.Sadly the statistics for domestic abuse are on the rise and too many are too scared to run until it is too late. Thanks for writing this.
UncleSammy
On March 6, 2011 at 11:48 am
Nice share