Easy Prey: the Sexual Abuse of Children
by This is a non-fiction article on the sexual abuse of children; a subject I feel very strongly about…
Child sexual predators come from all walks of life disguised as teachers, clergymen, Boy Scout and Girl Scout leaders, parole officers, welfare social workers, doctors, lawyers, police officers, and judges to name a few. They’re purpose; to have sex with children. Everyday across America and around the world, children are being victimized by these so- called authority figures, as well as those who are not in the limelight, who believe they have the right to have sex with the underage population.
It is their belief that sex with children is harmless and claims that sexual relations are healthy for the prepubescent and early teen generations. These are points that remain to be seen. Child sexual misconduct is what it is; the inappropriate handling of sexual matters as it applies to the prepubescent child and early teen. Only parents have the obligation to teach they’re children about sex in a way that their children will understand. It’s not a subject that should be learned at the hands of a pedophile or child molester that’s only goal is to seek sexual gratification.
Organizations like the now defunct North American Man/Boy Love Association, better known as NAMBLA that once boasted a membership of 240,000 in the 1990’s, argue that one of children’s rights is to express themselves sexually with each other as well as with adults, saying that children desire and initiate sexual contacts with pedophiles. But in reality, prepubescent children know nothing of sexual matters. In today’s world its became more prevalent that we need stricter laws to protect our future community and national leaders from these monsters that want to abolish the age of consent so that they may ravage the sons and daughters of our great nation without fear of the justice system. These same monsters want the national and world public to believe that adult – child sexual relationships are nothing more than mutual tender coming of age experiences that will fondly be cherished by the child. But 39000,000 survivors of child sexual abuse say the opposite. These same survivors have endured a life time of guilt for something that wasn’t they’re fault, but at the time of they’re victimization they were convinced they had been the ones to bring on the sexual activity. But however, this is not the case.
By convincing the child that they are a sexual partner rather than a sexual victim, the molester can incase the child in secrecy in order to continue the sexual abuse. Everyday these sexual deviants lead the innocent nation to slaughter with promises of gifts, friendship, and love. Once trust has been established, it becomes impossible for the victim to see the fox in sheep’s clothing. For many of these victims the reality of their victimization comes too late, often times resulting in death.
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Post CommentChristine Ramsay
On January 11, 2009 at 7:53 am
Thank you for writing this article. I am sure many who have been abused will take comfort from it.
Christine
nobert soloria bermosa
On January 11, 2009 at 4:17 pm
interesting stuff,i agree with Christine,well done Randy,
Debra.
On January 11, 2009 at 9:56 pm
I wrote two articles on this very subject called, “Abusers, victims and heroes” and the other one is called, “Through a child’s eyes” check them out.
Abuse is a viscous crime and we need to talk about it and maybe we can help someone out there.
Nice job!
Michelle~Parker
On January 12, 2009 at 5:33 am
Dear Randy,
for those parents who believe their children were assaulted in the first place is comfort in itself. As a survivor of child sexual and verbal abuse it is something that you carry for the rest of your life. It is why I said yes when asked would I contribute to a book to help women who have survived child sexual abuse as part of their counselling the book would be introduced. I didn’t do it for the money, I did it for free, all proceeds of the book go back into counselling fellow women survivors. It was the least I could do after 1 special woman from a community centre realized I was sexually abused as a child before I did as soon as she met me as in most cases we bury it, forget it until something triggers what happened to us as children. She got me through it and it was my turn to do the same. She now calls me an ambassador for the children and the women and men who have been subjected to child abuse, I don’t believe that I am an ambassador but I will fight for the women survivors and the children who are molested every day. By sharing my story again helps just 1 more woman face her past then it was worth sharing the story.
YOu did the right thing by writing this story Randy the children should not be forgotten about, blamed and for those who think little children want to be molested may there be a special place for you in hell and we will meet again on judgement day.
Love Shelley.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Fegger
On January 13, 2009 at 8:04 am
Intense and concise. The topic must have been a difficult one to explore for someone so sensitive; and you poised yourself quite professionally. With others, thank you for taking the time to air this.
Timothy P Stavert
On January 14, 2009 at 4:15 am
This was well written and researched and my heart goes out for any abused child or adult. The vulneralbility of some people is is paramount and I feel that poeple who want to become parents in their own writes, should be pasuaded to attend courses to cope with such circumstances. This is just one of thousands of solutions to combat abuse.
Well Done Randy, keep the awareness going so other readers may protect their children.
Tim
Alicia Wind
On January 16, 2009 at 4:28 am
Randy, this is really a serious one.., an intense case that everyone should deal about. A child has no strenghts to fight for it, so innoscents and curse the adult who will do such terrible thing. I, myself condemn such criminal…what brutality they brought to the young children, they just steal children’s happiness and life forever.
In someway, your concern is highly respected. A good way to extend a cause!
Ruby Hawk
On January 16, 2009 at 5:17 pm
This is a subject that should be discussed, written about,and brought to light. Innocent children must be protected and these people who abuse them must be brought to justice. Well written Randy.A big thumbs up.
Moon Ride
On January 16, 2009 at 8:03 pm
This is a great subject to write about… it kind of makes you think…where has the world come to? Great job!
PR Mace
On January 18, 2009 at 10:44 pm
Excellant job, Randy. This is a subjest that needs to be discussed openly. As I told you, my neice was robbed of her childhood by a family member she trusted. She told so that this person did not have a chance to do the same thing to my daughter. You should be able to trust your own family. My father would never have even thought of touching me or other female family in a sexual way. I husband can’t understand how a man could want a child in a sexual way. My father was and my husband is a decent special man. They are the type of men all men should be. See you got me on the soapbox with you.
Take care, Pam
Nick Kenney
On February 7, 2009 at 3:41 pm
I have a real problem with anyone that touches a child inappropriately. Children are gifts from God that need protection, love and guidance.
Thanks so much for writing this Randy, this needs to be brought out into the open.
BC Doan
On February 17, 2009 at 7:57 am
Randy,
I finally got some time to read this carefully, and attentively. I also stand against any behavior that result in hurting a child!
You wrote with such passion, understanding, and very well researched!
shay
On February 20, 2009 at 4:43 pm
I think that this is an interesting topic and article because i have always wondered why men and women like to sexually abuse childern and now i think i have found my answer and i appreciate this Randy.
Susan B Anna
On March 1, 2009 at 11:09 am
Hi Randy, I am truly glad you tackled and wrote about such a touchy subject, as far as the victims go. The first thing to always remember if victimized in such a heinous way, is that you are not to blame. You were an innocent child that let a grown up lead you to believe what you were doing was right. Tom Arnold was molested as a child by a babysitter, who convinced him what they were doing was a game, which I wrote about in my website @ one2recognize2.wetpaint.com. Upon admitting it he also starred in a movie called Gardens of Night, in which he portrayed the pedophile in order to teach children how easy it is to be duped into believing them. This was truly a wonderful article and I do hope it helps all who have suffered in the hands of a pedophile realize it was not their fault.
Lucas Dié
On September 28, 2009 at 8:02 am
I saw your excellent article only now — I’ll try to include it by fix into the necessary links on my articles about Roman Polanski