Serial Killers: Part 4

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It is interesting by far to try and analyze the behaviors and actions of an assorted array of human beings. I cringe at the thought of even calling them human beings for there actions have definitely led most to believe that they are monsters. The mere threads of existence from conception to death and everything else in between determines which path in life we choose. Impulsion’s that some may know how to control and others have no control of at all. How we as a civilized human race are taught so we would think to remain calm, rational and handle situations in an adult fashion. Something that must be learned by our caregivers and others in our society.

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In trying to decipher the deep and well hidden secrets of some to those who are outwardly open with their crimes depends on the individuals themselves.  As I stated earlier in this article it does begin at home and the environment/surroundings of a child’s world can mean the difference from a solemn dark destructive force to a loving, compassionate human being.

What of those children that are born however into loving homes? What of those who receive all that a parent can offer yet still go out to commit acts of robbery, murder, rape?  How would we decipher those individuals?

I believe that too much or too little of anything is probably not good for any child for if a child is raised to be selfish and spoiled they too are prone to violent crimes for they have no moral character in caring or sacrifice.  Who is a perfect parent?  A parent who ultimately believes in right and wrong, a parent who loves unconditionally and does not put down a child for mishaps but rather lovingly talks to them and punishes them accordingly to learn repercussion in actions and behaviors.  A parent who is not abusive, is not drug or alcohol addicted.  A parent who is there and ultimately a parent who gives there child room to grow and learn but teaches them value, trust, kindness and respect.  Would I wonder would that be a recipe for the perfect parent? I cannot honestly say that there is any recipe and though many parents try to raise good and decent children many are just children themselves when they have children of there own.  Teenage pregnancy, poverty, drugs, and even members of our own society unfortunately have over run our communities and while we spend millions of dollars on weapons and warfare we turn our backs to the problems in our own backyards.  The breed of humans that are coming forth into the world is frightening. We have visual aids that help along the way by showing movies of torture and dismemberment provoking our children and even adults into a semblance of numb detachment.  Raising children is not a right people! It’s a privilege and children can be born from the drug addicted prostitute on the street just as well as to the best matriarch in the suburbs.  Anyone can have a child as much as dogs can have litters but even dogs protect there young better then many adults do.  It takes all of us to change and focus on our young. It takes those who bring children into the world to shed real responsibility along with love and guided teachings each and every day of that child’s life so that they can be brought up as a loving and responsible human being.  You hear of people everyday who snap at losing there job, going from boyfriend to boyfriend, are ignorant in the avenues of parenting. This list too goes on and on. How do we stop the madness? How do we stop compulsions from taking over our lives and be able to stop and think before the action taken results in something that can be forever changed and never taken back.  Again I know I certainly do not have all of the answers to that but I do know that as my own children grow I as a parent still shower them with love and praise. I still show them right from wrong to care for there fellow human being so that they too can grow into productive and decent citizens. To be human beings.