The Worst Thing That Can Happen to You

     This article is about something that we all must life through. In this, I will talk about DEATH. What is it like for someone in my family to be dead? Well, I gotta tell you, it’s not fun. No fun at all.

     CAUTION: What I am about to tell you ACTUALLY HAPPENED. This story is scary, and should not be read by the light hearted. If you think you can’t handle this, then LEAVE. Hit the back button on your browser.

     One of the hardest things to deal with in life is death. Yes, people die, but, when it happens, we don’t forget it. We never WILL forget it. About a month and a half ago my Grandma died from lung cancer. She was great, and, even though she could get on my nerves a few times, I still loved her.

     For those of you who say to yourselves “Man, I wish my parents were dead! They are so abusive to me! They make me do all these things I don’t want to do!”, you are wrong. When someone dies, it stays with you for a long time. It took me atleast 2 weeks to get over my death in the family. And, it still plays hard on my Grandpa. He comes home every day sad and lonely.

     What happens when someone starts to die:

1. They start losing their minds, and can’t control themselves, what they say, or what they do.
2. The people that loves the person who is dieing start to have emotional issues.
3. Everyone is worried all of a sudden.
4. You are scared, you don’t know what to do, when to do it, or anything else.

     What is was like for me:

I was scared ALL the time. I didn’t know when I should be with her. I didn’t know what I needed to do, when I needed to do it, nor anything else that I was taught. I was REALLY worried when I wasn’t with her. The most I could do was sit there, next to her, watch her as she helplessly lost her life. I was worried when I had to go to bed. Unfortunitely, no one woke me up at 1:00AM (central time) when she did die.

     What YOU can do when someone is losing their life:

1. Stand by their side for as long as possible
2. Tell them you love them, and everything that you enjoyed about them, even if you don’t think that he/she can hear you.
3. If he/she asks for signals for something, get it right away.
4. Even if he/she doesn’t ask for help, you still can.

Real Fact

It was hard for me to right this short story. It made me think about that someone who I once loved. I know that when someone dies that YOU know, you will be glad you read this article.