Bullies in Our Schools: Where Does This Comes From?
The scare and pain that a bully leaves behind after the attack on another individual is a constant reminder of failure on their parts.
Where does this come from?
- Bad parenting
- Attention seeking
- Confuse
- Low self-esteem
There are reason why some people like to bully others, They show lack of confidence in their-selves and usually finds way to express their angry on others. Bad parenting can play a major role in your child’s life if the concern and love isn’t present or appreciated. Children need to be wanted and respected by their parents. Bullies sometime need attention to communicated their feeling, for example showing off in front of a crowd of individual who are looking for negative attention. They also feel that they need to take ownership and become a leader in a negative way. Usually they are confuse inside and are afraid to express their feeling to others. Often low self-esteem seems to play a part in trying to intimidate other who have self-esteem and confidence.
What can we as a community and Educator do to help?
We can educate our students on how to avoid being the bully everyday target. In our schools the educators need to identify the students who are causing the most problems to avoid fights and peer conflicts. Show these students that they too can be appreciated by the student body. Small sections and showing concerns for their needs is just as important as the students who are achieving their goals. Ignoring the bad students builds a bully. The bully will try to find ways to manipulate the environment. The other students should report to administrator at all time when he or she is having problems with peers that are threaten or demanding money from them and constantly applying peer pressure. This will help to alleviate further problems in the future and student achievements can escalate into positive outcomes in the educational system.
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