Men Listen Up!

Notice I have said women, not little girls, so if you are a child this subject is not for you. Now for the grown folks, men if there is something that you need from a woman why not speak your mind, stop thinking that women are mind readers. Us as women we do love strong sometime to strong, but when a women loves it comes from a good place in our hearts, stop blaming us for the reason you act a certain way, we are not the blame if you notice their are times when a woman gets pissed because you are the fuel to the fire. We care alot for you. But it’s the things that you do, and will you please stop comparing white women with black women and asian women, if you all want to get technical, alot of other race women have different back rounds if you notice as a whole black women has endured in alot of being the backbone but black women has got trampled on since the beginning of time. While the betty’s stayed home and it was the man who brought home the bacon everyone knew their place. But us as a race now alot of us don’t have any boundaries, everyone crosses the line.

The other side is just as worse. If you know the anger of African American travels from along way because that’s all the ancestor’s of the African American culture endured was anger, but we endured strength that’s why the black woman is so strong, and why the black man is always at war. If you look at the other races, they have less of the violent spirit they hold off and snap at the wrong moment, and when they do snap it’s to late. The African American culture is fading all because we down each-other how can you down each-other we are the same kind, if slavery was to come back anytime where would you be? you would be right back where you started, if they asked you to pick cotton what would you do? and then we all would be slaves while you thought you were safe.

Martin Luther king did not want us to be judge by our color but look at what we are doing to ourselves we are putting ourselves against each-other, we have the highest rate of broken home’s because we think that to work it out is to complicated, African Americans need to know how to work together and pull each-other up. Father’s are leaving the home all the time, and women need to stop leaving their babies all because you feel that you can’t raise a baby by yourself, Let me tell you one-thing help is out here get it. So what if someone says’s you are on the system you are doing what you have to do to raise your family, I bet your kids would have a roof over their head and food to eat, DON”T HAVE TO MUCH PRIDE, because guess who is going to hurt your children. We need to get it together.

All women have their days no one is better than the other it might seem that way but sometime you need to look at yourself and find out, why you think you are much better, everyone has issue’s in life no one is perfect, but if someone is not the one for you let them know don’t stab no one in the back and do them dirty hoping no one would find out, old rule of thumb TREAT SOMEONE AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.