A Few Things About Homosexuality Every “Straight” Person Should Know

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Gays, lesbians; homosexuals, all the same. For me, no. I could think of those three words at the beginning of this article offensive and rude. They’re not normal, but to themselves, they are. Everyone in the world has an opinion for every decision and opinion. You need to respect that decision no matter what.

‘They’ are like that for many reasons, and I’m going to tell you what they are. The first scenario is where they are like that from birth, from birth defect, or even a normal birth. This could happen if the baby has more female hormones than masculine ones. Second scenario, is where you hang around girls a lot, don’t really have interest in men, and suddenly they do! Because of isolation from masculine contact, that makes that person want to explore males more, which leads to gay. Or the other way around for lesbians. Third scenario is where you hang around too much with your own gender that you tend to fall for them instead of the opposite.

These are the main ‘three scenarios’. There is also influence from other people. If Clay Aiken was gay, I want to be gay as well. I bet Katy Perry’s ‘I Kissed A Girl’ influenced women to become lesbians as well. That could be another scenario. Another one would be something like this: If you liked your opposite gender and you think they’re mean to you and think your own gender is more nicer to you, you choose to have interest in your own gender.

You need to respect their interest, because that’s who they are, not you. You need to respect differences around people. If you’re the type of person who doesn’t like homosexuals as a person, I suggest you take care of yourselves first before thinking of others.

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It’s not easy when you’re a homosexual and your parents or friends are saying: “Just like girls, try it.” It’s not easy. How could someone be interested in the gender the person is not. It’s like forcing somebody t eat worms where instead he doesn’t like it.

It’s not easy when people try to do the opposite of what they like. The last thing about gays, is that they are more ‘capable’ of making friends with girls, and the other way around with lesbians. They can find their ‘normal’ soul-mate if they liked the opposite gender.

If you see someone looking odd in the street, just ignore him and don’t try and say “look, a gay/lesbian!”. That will lower the person’s self esteem down, and others would join in as well. But kinder people wouldn’t.

“we’re all born in different colors, some red, some brown, some white. But we are humans we need to look out for each other. Never look at the dark side, look at the brighter one;always.”